
Episode #34
Why We Need to Find the ADHD Girls Earlier—and What Five Minutes Can Change
Today Jessica talks with Cynthia Hammer and Kristan Shimpi , two leading advocates working to make sure girls with ADHD are recognized, supported, and understood before years of shame and misunderstanding take hold. Cynthia is the founder of Find the ADHD Girls and Executive Director of the Inattentive ADHD Coalition. Diagnosed with ADHD at 49, she turned her own late discovery into a lifelong mission to help girls get identified early and receive the support they need. Kristan is trained through the Duke ADHD Program, holds a PhD in Special Education and Curriculum Instruction, and brings decades of experience in ADHD research, girls’ leadership, problem-solving, and volunteer development. Together, they explore what ADHD looked like in their own childhoods, why bright girls are so often missed, and how earlier recognition can help children develop self-understanding instead of internalizing criticism. They also share why advocacy does not require expertise or endless spare time: one email, conversation, or shared resource can make a meaningful difference. Learn more about the movement and become a volunteer advocate at FindTheADHDGirls.org/advocates . Parents and caregivers can explore the organization’s free checklist at FindTheADHDGirls.org/checklist-form . Inside this episode: Cynthia’s late ADHD diagnosis at age 49 and the shame she had to unlearn Kristan’s childhood experience of being bright, energetic, and misunderstood Why good grades do not rule out ADHD How girls can be labeled “willful,” chatty, careless, or difficult when they need support Why early recognition can prevent years of negative self-talk and masking How a strengths-based understanding of ADHD helps girls develop confidence Why workplaces and classrooms benefit from more than one neurodivergent person at the table How five minutes a week of advocacy can help change the future for ADHD girls Your Lab Kit Notice the full pattern. Replace one old message. Take just five minutes. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- The ADHD Alchemy Podcast is where bright, sensitive women finally stop masking and start thriving—with clarity, confidence, and shameless potential . We’re sharing real stories that help us turn friction into flow, liability into leverage, and resistance into rhythm. If your brain feels like a thousand tabs are open and five radio stations are playing at once, you’re in the right place! I’m Jessica Covington and I’ve always had a slightly different way of doing things, including ADHD. In my work, we leverage the body-mind connection to harness the beautiful potential you’ve always known is there but haven’t been able to use. My guests and I are here to help you quiet the shame, trust yourself again, and create a life that feels calm, focused, and fully yours. These are the stories of women like us: the ones who think differently; who’ve tried every damn system, planner, and app but nothing sticks; who’ve spent years and all their energy trying to seem "normal"; and who are finally ready to see ADHD without shame, guilt, or apology. Stick with us here to remember you are NOT a failure, you’re not alone in the chaos, and you are certainly not deficient or disordered. Apply to be a guest and share your own story here. Learn more at fit-ology.com. Join the conversation – it’s in our own little space away from algorithms, and it’s free! Co-work with us in Focus Labs – Tuesdays at 1pm eastern. Free and open to any Fancy Brain (but we need your registration to attend). Grab your copy of “Distracted to Done” Help yourself to the “Move Your Body - Move Your Mind Map” Learn more about ADHD Alchemy Coaching (private and group pathways are open now) On the socials (sporadically!): Facebook Page Fancy Brains Facebook Group Jessica on LinkedIn Instagram Blog on Medium Music credit goes to my son, TAZZFANTO, who composed and produced this song just for us. This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes; always check with your healthcare provider before making changes to diet, exercise and mental health care. This episode may contain affiliate links and mentions; we are grateful for your support.

