After Hello Podcast

Welcome to the After Hello.Success in the boardroom shouldn’t mean solitude at home. For the modern CEO, entrepreneur, and high-achieving professional, the "dating game" often feels like a poor investment of time. Between constant travel, scaling businesses, and high-stakes decision-making, where does a quality partner fit in?Hosted by Ann Parnes and Maria Murray—founders of the elite matchmaking firm After Hello—this podcast is a direct line to the experts. We’re moving beyond the "swipe culture" to bring you a tailored, strategic approach to compatibility.Each episode, we dive into:Real-Life Hotline Calls: Direct advice for men navigating the tension between career ambition and personal connection.The Science of Attraction: How technology, AI, and psychological compatibility impact your search.The ROI of Romance: Why you should apply the same intentionality to your love life as you do to your quarterly KPIs.Stop leaving your legacy to chance. Experience the art of meaningful c

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  After Hello Podcast

  The Dating Advice That Creates Mixed Signals and Keeps You Confused

  Jul 22, 20261h 1m

  Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here: https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here ☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006 In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore how modern dating advice from social media, Reddit, and TikTok often conflicts and why there is rarely a single “correct” answer when it comes to relationships. Through real listener questions and Reddit relationship dilemmas, they break down how dating judgments, mixed signals, emotional boundaries, and first impressions shape romantic outcomes in 2026. The conversation highlights how clarity, communication, and self-awareness consistently outperform assumptions, overthinking, and internet-driven dating rules. The discussion then shifts into four major dating scenarios: A situationship where one person says they are “not ready to date,” yet continues daily emotional connection, raising questions about mixed signals and boundaries. A debate about leaving dating apps entirely due to discomfort and stigma, and whether that mindset is limiting or self-protective. A breakup decision after early dating inconsistency and disrespectful communication, followed by a deep dive into whether first-date behavior is enough to determine compatibility. A first-date experience marked by mismatched effort, phone distractions, and frequent mentions of an ex, followed by a discussion on dating etiquette and whether first impressions reflect long-term compatibility. Across all stories, the hosts emphasize that compatibility is revealed through behavior patterns, not isolated moments, and that emotional clarity is essential for healthy dating decisions. Expect to Learn Why “dating advice from the internet” is often contradictory and context-dependent How to interpret mixed signals versus clear communication in early dating How mindset and profile behavior can impact success on dating apps Why relying only on friends for matchmaking can limit dating opportunities How to identify disrespect vs personality differences in early dating interactions How modern dating etiquette is shaped by apps, expectations, and emotional availability Episode Breakdown with Timestamps: [00:00:00] - Teaser [00:00:58] - Private Registry Explained: How matchmaking introductions work [00:01:38] - Introduction: Why dating advice online is so conflicting [00:05:40] - Reddit Story #1 Begins: Long-distance connection & unclear dating status [00:11:19] - “Not ready to date” vs ongoing daily communication [00:15:52] - Can friendship work after romantic interest is established? [00:18:58] - Instagram Story Begins: Quitting dating apps due to stigma & discomfort [00:21:38] - How mindset impacts dating app success and match quality [00:24:53] - Why dating apps can feel emotionally draining or “gross” [00:27:49] - Dating apps as a tool, not the only strategy for meeting people [00:32:58] - Reddit question: Quick ending to an otherwise good dating experience. [00:42:20] - Final Story Begins: First date with flowers, phone use, and ex talk [00:45:03] - Final verdict: Flowers on a first date, usually too much, with nuance [00:59:14] - Closing thoughts: No single right answer in dating; stay authentic I nstagram Creator #1 Featured in This Episode: Christian Beatty: https://www.instagram.com/lessofchristian/ Instagram Creator #2 Featured in This Episode: Zakir Siddiqui: https://www.instagram.com/zockkr/ Follow the Hosts: Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/ - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/ Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/ Follow After Hello Podcast: Website - https://www.afterhello.com/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

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  After Hello Podcast

  Being Too Selective in Dating for Ambitious Pros to Build Connection and Lasting Love

  Jul 15, 20261h 13m

  Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here: https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here ☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006 In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore the fine line between being intentionally selective and becoming overly picky in modern dating. They discuss how singles can maintain high standards while remaining open to meaningful connection, questioning whether rigid preferences around appearance, lifestyle, or status may prevent people from finding compatible partners. The episode features a unique blind matchmaking experience where bachelor Rick Hornstrom meets four accomplished women: Jillian Babb, Kamila, Corinne Devin, and Jillian B., through conversation alone before seeing only one of them at the end. Throughout the discussion, the group explores self-awareness, emotional growth, dating app culture, chemistry, compatibility, and what truly matters when building a lasting relationship. Guest Introductions Rick Hornstorm: A divorced father of three and AI executive, Rick Hornstorm values emotional growth, humor, travel, and building an intentional relationship rooted in presence, kindness, and partnership. Jillian Babb: Jillian Babb owns a professional organizing business and enjoys hiking, travel, and meaningful conversations. She values authenticity, intentional dating, and genuine connection beyond dating apps. Kamila: Originally from Poland, Kamila is an entrepreneur who values positive energy, meaningful conversations, intentionality, and creating authentic relationships built on trust and curiosity. Corinne Devin: Corinne Devin is a United States Navy Captain and orthodontist who values resilience, curiosity, cultural experiences, and building lasting relationships through mutual admiration and personal growth. Jillian B.: Jillian B. is a health coach and endurance athlete who believes strong relationships are built through teamwork, intentional support, shared adventures, and continuous personal growth. Expect to Learn Why being selective is healthy, but over-filtering may eliminate great relationship opportunities. How therapy, self-awareness, and emotional growth can transform the way people show up in relationships. What accomplished singles actually prioritize beyond physical attraction and dating app profiles. How communication, active listening, curiosity, and intentional effort create deeper emotional connection. Insights from a live blind matchmaking conversation that challenges first impressions and highlights authentic compatibility. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps [00:00:00] - Teaser [00:01:32] - Introduction to the blind matchmaking experiment and the question of being selective versus overly picky. [00:04:57] - Ann and Maria discuss healthy standards, deal breakers, and keeping an open mind while dating. [00:11:49] - Rick shares how therapy and self-reflection transformed the way he approaches relationships. [00:18:50] - Jillian introduces herself and explains why authentic, in-person connection matters more than dating apps. [00:25:50] - Kamila discusses first impressions, energy, and what makes a dating profile stand out. [00:31:54] - Corinne shares lessons from dating across cultures and the importance of resilience and curiosity. [00:36:47] - Jilly talks about endurance sports, discipline, and finding a partner who encourages growth. [00:40:42] - The women put Rick in the hot seat with questions about connection, partnership, and life priorities. [00:51:18] - Ann breaks down the compatibility and shared values she observed throughout the conversations. [00:55:28] - Rick reveals who he wants to meet face-to-face and explains what influenced his decision. [00:56:55] - Rick and Julie have their first on-camera conversation and reflect on the experience. [01:02:30] - The group discusses unusual dating deal breakers and when standards become limiting. [01:10:28] - Final reflections on intentional dating, compatibility, and focusing on the qualities that matter most. Follow the Guests: 👉 Rick Hornstorm - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rickhornstrom/ 👉 Jillian Babb - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillian-babb-984099260/ - Instagram: @babymamababb 👉 Kamila - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thinkq-financial-services/?viewAsMember=true 👉 Corinne Devin - Instagram: @drcorinnedevin - Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drcorinnedevin - Youtube: @DrCorinneDevin - Website: www.drcorinnedevin.com 👉 Jillian B. - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillianbenoit/ Follow the Hosts: 👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/ - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/ 👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/ Follow After Hello Podcast: 👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/ 👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking 👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/ 👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/ 👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

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  After Hello Podcast

  You Are Rejecting The Right Person Because of Attraction, Looks, and First-Date Mistakes

  Jul 8, 202651 min

  Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here: https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here ☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006 In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore how dating judgments, often unspoken but deeply influential, shape modern relationships in 2026. They break down how attraction, lifestyle preferences, and perceived “dealbreakers” like appearance, drinking habits, and family structure can significantly impact dating outcomes. Through real listener questions, the conversation dives into whether these judgments reflect true incompatibility or underlying insecurity, and how self-awareness can help daters make better relationship decisions. The hosts unpack how dating today is less about rigid rules and more about interpreting signals, learning when preferences are valid and when they may be limiting connection. From navigating first-date drinking behavior, to deciding whether to date someone with children, to confronting insecurities around hair loss and appearance, the episode offers practical, psychology-driven insights into modern attraction and compatibility. Guest Caller Featured Thomas from South Carolina - Questions whether drinking 3-4 drinks on a first date may have cost him a romantic connection and how alcohol influences first impressions. Kenny from Tampa, 43 years old - Dating a woman with children and unsure how much responsibility or lifestyle change is expected in blended family dynamics. Chris from Dallas, in his late 30s - Struggling with hair loss and how it affects confidence and perceived attractiveness in dating. Expect to Learn How unconscious “dating judgments” shape attraction and partner selection Why attraction often develops over time rather than instantly How alcohol consumption can influence first-date perception and compatibility signals What dating someone with children realistically looks like in long-term relationships Why confidence matters more than physical traits like hair loss How self-awareness helps distinguish between true dealbreakers and insecurity-based fears If this conversation got you thinking, take a look at Match's Singles in America study to see what thousands of singles had to say about dating, love, and relationships: https://match.mediaroom.com/2022-11-15-Singles-in-America-Match-Releases-Largest-Study-on-US-Single-Population-for-12th-Year Read the full Pew Research report to learn more about changing perspectives on parenthood & family trends: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2024/07/25/the-experiences-of-u-s-adults-who-dont-have-children/ Episode Breakdown with Timestamps: [00:00] - Teaser [01:32] - Introduction: Hosts explore how attraction, preferences, and “dating judgments” influence modern relationships and long-term outcomes. [03:54] - The Reality of Strong Preferences: A look at non-negotiable physical preferences and how they impact partner selection decisions. [08:51] - When Preferences Become Dealbreakers: How filtering based on appearance or traits can unintentionally remove strong potential matches. [11:26] - Caller 1 - Thomas: First-date drinking confusion after having 3-4 drinks and receiving feedback that it was a turnoff. [12:55] - Alcohol & First Impressions: How drinking can trigger assumptions about safety, lifestyle, and compatibility on a first date. [23:43] - Caller 2 - Kenny: Dating a woman with children and questioning whether hesitation is self-aware or selfish. [27:06] - Filtering vs Compatibility: How adding dealbreakers limits options but can improve long-term alignment and relationship satisfaction. [36:10] - Caller 3 - Chris: Hair loss concerns and how physical appearance impacts dating confidence and perceived attractiveness. [38:13] - Confidence Over Appearance: Why confidence is consistently more attractive than physical traits like hair or hair loss. [44:21] - Dating Profile Strategy for Hair Loss: Advice to avoid hiding hair loss in photos and instead lead with authenticity and confidence. [48:42] - Final Advice: Confidence, self-acceptance, and emotional security matter more than appearance in long-term dating success. Follow the Hosts: 👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/ - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/ 👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/ Follow After Hello Podcast: 👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/ 👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking 👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/ 👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/ 👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

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  After Hello Podcast

  Everyone Wants Love but Relationships Keep Failing in Modern Dating

  Jul 1, 20261h 6m

  Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here: https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here ☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006 In this episode of the After Hello Podcast , hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore intentional dating and meaningful connection in today’s modern landscape. The conversation centers on how singles can move beyond superficial swiping to foster authentic chemistry, clear communication, and shared values. Brayson , joins the podcast to meet three accomplished women: Kim , Brandy , and Rebeka , through a live matchmaking-style conversation. Throughout the episode, the hosts highlight how intentionality, vulnerability, and shared priorities influence the path to meaningful partnerships. Guest Introductions Brayson: A 41-year-old healthcare consultant based in Texas, Brayson is focused on intentionally building a long-term relationship. He values faith, humor, communication, shared experiences, and partnership in life. Kim: Recently turned 40, Kim balances ambition, warmth, and faith. She works in the insurance industry and enjoys traveling, trying new restaurants, paddle boarding, and spending time with her dog, Nash. Brandy: A professional in life care planning and vocational rehabilitation, Brandy is family-oriented, grounded, and authentic. She enjoys running, coaching volleyball, live music, and creating memorable experiences with her daughters. Rebeka: An HR and recruiting manager in construction, Rebecca is known for her humor, creativity, and care for others. Outside of work, she enjoys photography, traveling, exploring restaurants, and spending time with her dog, Willow. Expect to Learn How “Chalant dating” encourages intentional effort, emotional presence, and authentic connection. What highly accomplished, career-driven singles prioritize in partners beyond first impressions. The importance of vulnerability, humor, and alignment in developing meaningful chemistry. How personal values, lifestyle preferences, and spiritual alignment impact compatibility. Insights from a live matchmaking conversation that reveals what truly matters in dating today. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps [00:00] - Teaser [01:43] - Hosts Maria Murray and Ann Parnes introduce the episode, the matchmaking format, and the topic of modern dating. [07:29] - Introducing Brayso, who spent a lot of his adult life focused on building a career [08:49] - Brayson shares his faith, lifestyle, routine, and qualities he seeks in a life partner. [15:46] - Kim shares her values around faith, family, adventure, health, and her ideal partner. [19:36] - Brandy talks about her work, parenting, values, and lessons learned in love and life. [23:15] - Rebeka discusses her career, creativity, spirituality, and the role of self-awareness in dating. [27:26] - Kim, Brandy, and Rebeka ask Brayson about conflict resolution, work-life balance, passions, and lifestyle. [40:48] - Participants turn on their cameras for the first time, allowing visual connection and chemistry to emerge. [43:19] - Brandy shares her Catholic faith; hosts discuss alignment and compatibility among participants. [47:05] - Ann and Maria provide commentary on personality dynamics, values alignment, and relationship readiness. [56:40] - Participants reflect on declining marriage rates, generational shifts, and the changing dynamics of modern dating. [01:03:56] - Hosts and guests share key takeaways about effort, intention, compatibility, and authentic connection. Follow the Guests: 👉 Brayson - LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/brayson-burchfiel-mba-8968547 👉 Brandy - IG: https://www.instagram.com/brandyaparks/ 👉 Rebeka - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-kennedy-b5bb33138/ Follow the Hosts: 👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/ - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/ 👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/ Follow After Hello Podcast: 👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/ 👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking 👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/ 👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/ 👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

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  After Hello Podcast

  The Paradox of Choice in Dating: Why More Options Make Connection Harder

  Jun 24, 20261h 11m

  Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here: https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here ☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006 In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore the evolving landscape of modern dating in 2026. They discuss how dating has changed over the decades, from pre-app connections to today’s fast-paced, technology-driven environment. The hosts help listeners understand the nuances of dating multiple people, leveraging apps effectively, and navigating relationships with clear intentions. Real-life caller questions highlight topics such as reentering dating after loss, creating authentic chemistry, and managing office or client-based romance, providing practical advice for listeners across life stages. Guest Callers Featured: Joseph (61) – Recently widowed, looking to reenter the dating world after decades, navigating app-based dating, changing norms, and expectations in modern romance. Daniel (38) – Reengaging with dating apps, unsure how to present himself effectively through photos and profile content. Anonymous Caller – Interested in someone who is technically a customer, seeking guidance on pursuing a personal connection while maintaining professionalism. Expect to Learn: Dating Across Generations: How courtship has evolved, and which timeless principles still hold true in modern dating. Navigating Dating Apps: Learn strategies to optimize your profile, select photos, and communicate effectively online. Dating Multiple People: How to approach modern dating dynamics without overcommitting or miscommunicating. Professional Boundaries in Romance: Understand how to navigate workplace or client relationships ethically and effectively. Building Authentic Connections: Tips for translating online communication into meaningful, in-person relationships. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps: [00:00] – Teaser [01:12] – Introduction: Hosts discuss the term “modern dating” and the differences from past eras. [02:18] – Dating Before Apps: Comparing pre-app experiences to today’s technology-driven dating landscape. [04:59] – Caller 1 – Joseph: Returning to dating after long-term marriage; concerns about dating apps and expectations. [08:30] – Adapting to Modern Norms: Managing technology, texting, and boundaries in dating. [13:29] – Most people who are on dating apps are not looking for a pen pal. [17:18] – Communicating Online: How to pace messaging, avoid false intimacy, and transition to in-person connection. [25:34] – Caller 2 – Daniel: Optimizing dating app profiles and photos; tips for professional and candid images. [44:40] – Profile Photo Pitfalls: Avoiding bad first impressions, over-editing, and misleading imagery. [53:38] – Caller 3 – Customer Romance: Balancing personal interest with professional boundaries. [01:01:00] – Timing & Signals: Best practices for pursuing interest while respecting professional contexts. [01:04:38] – Final Advice: Core principles for successful dating today—authenticity, consistency, and courage in taking risks. Follow the Hosts: 👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/ - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/ 👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/ Follow After Hello Podcast: 👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/ 👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking 👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/ 👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/ 👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

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