Art of Classiness

The Art of Classiness is a podcast about friendship in all its messy, meaningful glory. Hosted by real-life best friends, this show explores the ups and downs of adult friendships—from boundary-setting and breakups to evolving dynamics and unexpected moments. With humor, heart, and honesty, we’re redefining what it means to be a classy lady in today’s world—one conversation at a time.

Art of Classiness is a society podcast hosted by Robin Welch and Deborah Andrews, with 97 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Robin Welch and Deborah Andrews hosts Art of Classiness, a society show with 97 episodes published.

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  EP97: Social Obligations We’re Too Old to Pretend We Enjoy

  Sep 30, 202659 min

  This week on The Art of Classiness , Robin and Deborah are getting honest about the things they are officially too old to pretend they enjoy. Not because they are against fun. Not because they want to stay home forever. And definitely not because anyone needs permission to enjoy brunch, a baby shower, a music festival, or a chaotic group chat. But at a certain point, adulthood teaches you that being “easygoing” does not have to mean ignoring your own preferences, spending money you do not want to spend, standing in lines you do not want to stand in, or forcing yourself through social rituals that leave you more depleted than connected. Along the way, we ask: Is saying no to an invitation selfish—or is it respecting your own time? When does an “experience” become a logistical nightmare? What is still worth a little inconvenience? And which millennial staples are we keeping, retiring, or defending forever? Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Send us your own “too old to pretend” list: artofclassiness@gmail.com Quick disclaimer, friends—we are not doctors, therapists, or professional event planners. We are two women with opinions, a deep respect for seating, and a healthy skepticism of any event requiring a group Venmo. This episode is for fun and informational purposes only. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you.

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  EP96: AITA: Grief Support, Postpartum Boundaries & Entitled Friends

  Sep 16, 202657 min

  This week on The Art of Classiness , Robin and Deborah are back in the AITA universe to talk grief, family boundaries, entitlement, and the difference between asking for support and expecting access. A husband wants to leave for a hockey game after his wife’s grandmother dies. A new mom faces family drama over who gets to meet her baby first. A mother-in-law refuses to hire her daughter-in-law at the family business, and a cruise guest wants an amazing deal—without following the rules that come with it. Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Share your stories, hot takes, and verdicts: artofclassiness@gmail.com Quick disclaimer, friends—we are not doctors, lawyers, or mental-health professionals. We are two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you. When does family become entitled? When is “being the bigger person” just another way of asking someone to ignore their own needs? And how do you set a boundary without becoming the villain in someone else’s story?

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  EP95: The History of Being “Too Much”: Gossip, Hysteria, Pink & Red Lipstick

  Sep 9, 202648 min

  This week on The Art of Classiness , Robin and Deborah are going historical. We’re unpacking four things that seem totally unrelated—gossip, hysteria, the color pink, and red lipstick—and tracing how each one became tied to women, femininity, and the endless cultural pressure not to be “too much.” First, we get into the surprising origins of gossip: a word that once referred to close, trusted companions before it became shorthand for petty, malicious, feminine talk. Then we unpack hysteria, the ancient medical idea that women’s bodies and emotions made them unstable, and why the language of “dramatic,” “hormonal,” and “too sensitive” still hits differently today. We also look at how pink became a gender rule rather than just a color, why the pink-for-girls/blue-for-boys divide was never as natural or universal as we were taught, and how consumer culture helped turn color into a personality category. Finally, we trace the long, complicated history of red lipstick—from ancient pigments and moral panic to glamour, suffrage-era visibility, confidence, rebellion, and the modern question of why one color on a woman’s mouth can still make people have opinions. Join us for a conversation about history, womanhood, cultural rules, and all the weird things society decided women should be judged for. NPR Article Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Share your thoughts and stories: artofclassiness@gmail.com Quick disclaimer, friends—we’re not doctors, historians, or mental-health professionals. We’re two people who love to research, share ideas, and talk through the things that shape women’s lives. This episode is for fun and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, mental-health, or legal advice. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you.

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  EP94: How to Create Distance in a Friendship Without Ending It

  Sep 2, 202655 min

  Not every friendship needs a dramatic breakup. Sometimes, someone simply needs less access. This week on The Art of Classiness , Robin and Deborah are talking friendship circles: who gets a front-row seat to your life, who gets the group-chat version of you, and when someone may need to move from your inner circle to the outer one. They unpack the signs that a friendship has become unbalanced, draining, untrustworthy, or held together by one person doing all the work. They also share practical ways to create distance without becoming cold: changing the frequency, depth, or setting of the relationship; shifting from one-on-one time to group hangs; and protecting your time, energy, and vulnerability without punishing anyone. Because friendship is not all-or-nothing. You can care about someone and still decide they no longer get the closest version of you. Class Act of the Week: Reina Condos Circle of Friends Worksheet Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Share your thoughts, stories, and verdicts: artofclassiness@gmail.com Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you.

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  EP93: Habits That Destroy Confidence (and How to Build It Back)

  Aug 26, 202658 min

  Confidence is not about being perfect, fearless, or the loudest person in the room. It is about trusting yourself enough to take up space, make decisions, recover from mistakes, and keep going when you feel unsure. In this Classy Care episode, Robin and Deborah break down five habits that can quietly destroy confidence and self-worth: negative self-talk, poor body language, toxic relationships, people-pleasing, and constantly seeking validation from everyone else. They also share practical, realistic ways to build confidence back up—from changing the way you speak to yourself and setting cleaner boundaries to taking up your reasonable amount of space and creating your own internal scorecard. Plus, they discuss the famous “power pose” study, what later research did and did not support, and why standing a little taller may still help you feel more grounded before a hard conversation, meeting, or moment. Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Share your thoughts and Classy Care wins: artofclassiness@gmail.com Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you.

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