
Episode #23
Co-Parenting Apps and AI Platform That Helps Document Post-Separation Abuse
What if you had a friend who never got tired of hearing about your co-parent, and quietly kept the receipts for you? For survivors of relationship abuse, leaving is only the beginning. Post-separation abuse often continues through co-parenting messages, custody disputes, and the constant pressure of documenting every incident, all while your nervous system is still in survival mode. In this episode, Mandi welcomes back Anne Wintemute, founder of Amy Says, an AI support platform built for survivors navigating co-parenting after abuse. Anne shares how AI can help spot coercive control, document patterns for legal and custody proceedings, and lighten the mental load that comes with every notification. You'll also hear how popular co-parenting apps fit into the picture, what privacy protections survivors should look for in AI tools, and why reducing the impact on your nervous system is part of healing, especially for those living with complex PTSD. RESOURCES Aimee Says - AI support platform for survivors of relationship abuse that helps document co-parenting experiences and recognize abusive patterns. Amy Detects - Amy Says tool that analyzes communication records from other apps and documents to flag coercive control and abusive behavior. (confirm URL) OurFamilyWizard - Co-parenting communication app often mandated by courts that creates a permanent record of messages. TalkingParents - Co-parenting communication app that keeps a secure, unalterable record of exchanges between co-parents. Connect with Anne Wintemute: Website: AimeeSays.com Instagram: @aimeesaysdv LinkedIn: Anne Wintemute Connect with Mandi: Website: WomenAwareAndPrepared.com Take the Free Intuition Quiz WomenAwareAndPrepared.com/Quiz Instagram: @WomenAwareAndPrepared LinkedIn: Mandi Pratt Approximate Timestamps [00:00] Introduction to Anne Wintemute and Amy Says [02:08] How AimeeSays supports survivors and co-parenting [04:01] Privacy stance and data security in AI tools [06:49] Overview of co-parenting apps and Aimee Detects [09:57] Using Aimee Detects to analyze communication records [12:37] Impact of trauma and complex PTSD on survivors [16:48] Softening the bull ride: reducing trauma impact [20:46] Integrating AI with existing co-parenting apps [26:36] Advice for using AI tools in co-parenting and legal contexts The primary purpose of the Women Aware and Prepared Podcast is to educate and inform. This podcast series does not constitute advice or services. Please use common sense for your own situation. Send me a message



