
Episode #233
Babbling About When The Right Decision Still Hurts
#233: You make the call. You do the brave thing. You choose what’s healthiest, smartest, most honest for your life. Then you sit in the quiet and think, why does this still hurt? We get into the part nobody really talks about: the grief that can follow the right decision. I unpack why we love to sort choices into “right vs wrong,” and how that sets us up to believe we should feel instant relief if we chose correctly. From breakups and divorce to job changes, moving away, and setting boundaries, I talk through why every option can come with a loss, and why missing what you left behind doesn’t mean you should run back. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t deciding. It’s living with the choice after the adrenaline wears off. We also dig into the brain’s greatest hits: overthinking, romanticizing the road you didn’t take, and rewriting the past to borrow certainty that doesn’t exist. I share how reassurance seeking can feel like relief for a moment, but the doubt tends to return when we’re alone. And if faith is part of your world, I talk honestly about what it looks like to pray without forcing fake peace, and why grief is not evidence of spiritual failure. If you’re stuck asking “Did I make the right decision?”, let’s shift the question to “How do I take care of myself now that it’s made?” Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. You can now send us a text to ask a question or review the show. We would love to hear from you! Support the show Follow me on social: https://www.instagram.com/babbles_nonsense/

