
BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS
Tell them. First. Without waiting.
<p>The Mistake I Keep Making (And Maybe You Do Too)</p><p>I used to think my biggest problem was saying too much.</p><p>I’m Carissa. I’m bad at keeping secrets — literally, it’s the name of my podcast — and for a long time I low-key believed that my tendency to overshare was something I needed to fix. Like if I could just learn to hold back a little more, I’d seem more polished. More put-together. More professional.</p><p>Case in point: when my mother-in-law first met me, she told my husband Josh that she was surp...






