
Episode #34
Care But Don't Carry | Releasing While Finding Rest, Joy, and God in the Stillness
What happens when you have spent your entire life being the glue β the one who holds everything together for everyone else β and one day you simply cannot carry it anymore? In this deeply honest episode of Becoming the Oak Rooted in Christ, Sara Wolfe shares her journey through losing everything in the 2008 real estate crash, raising four children through homelessness and food stamps, navigating the end of a 25-year marriage, and the faith crisis that followed when everything she had built her identity on suddenly fell apart. Sara opens up about the season she wandered away from God, how He kept wooing her back gently and persistently, and the phrase that changed her life β I can care but I do not have to carry. If you are the woman holding everyone else together and wondering when someone is going to hold you, this episode is for you. In this episode: How Sara's family lost everything in 2008 and what her faith looked like in the middle of homelessness and food stamps The 25-year marriage that ended and the faith crisis that followed β and why she needed to wander before she could truly come home What it means to have a God consciousness all day long rather than just at scheduled prayer times The phrase that changed everything β I can care but I do not have to carry Why rest and stillness β not effort and striving β is where she finally found her joy again Featured Scriptures & Talks: Psalm 46:10 β "Be still and know that I am God" Isaiah 49:16 β I have engraved you upon the palms of my hands Philippians 4:13 β I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me The concept of God consciousness β a continual conversation with God throughout the day rather than only at scheduled prayer times This episode is for you if: You are the person who always holds everything together for everyone else and are running on empty You are in a season of questioning your faith or wandering and wondering if you can find your way back You have experienced loss β of a marriage, a home, a community, or an identity β and are rebuilding You want permission to put down what was never yours to carry in the first place You need to be reminded that God never stops wooing you back β no matter how far you have drifted Sara's Book: https://sarawolfe.global/ A note from Kendra: Sara and I are not of the same religion β but we both believe in Jesus Christ. And I love that this podcast is a place where that is enough. No matter your denomination or background, if you are rooted in Him you are welcome here. Connect with Becoming the Oak: Website: becomingtheoak.com Email: kendra@becomingtheoak.com Instagram: @becomingtheoak


