
Episode #15
S9E15: Quitting Your Toxic Job with Mercedes Swan
In a season when so many Black women are being laid off, Mercedes Swan makes the case for the women who are choosing to leave: the ones walking away from a job that is quietly making them sick. A career coach with a background in HR and DEI, Mercedes lived it herself, an ADHD diagnosis, depression, and anxiety she traces to a toxic workplace, before building her own business. She and Laura get honest about how to tell when the environment is the problem, how workplace trauma reshapes your relationship with rest and your own worth, and how to break what she calls the toxic job search cycle so you do not flee one bad situation straight into another. Practical, validating, and clear-eyed about the real constraints of bills and family. In this episode: How to know a job is toxic, starting with the simplest signal: your discomfort is enough The toxic job search cycle (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) and how it lands you in the next bad job The "limiting belief buster" exercise, plus how to plan your exit and recover your energy while you are still inside a hard environment About Mercedes Mercedes Swan is the Career Love Coach and creates empowering and safe places for high-performing and purpose-driven Black women. Leveraging her experience in HR and DEI, she has a mission to close the pay, promotion, and inclusion gap for Black women and other historically marginalized groups on the way to collective career liberation. She is the founder of the Black Woman Bliss Community and Career Love, a social impact organization. Connect with Mercedes Website: https://www.mercedesswan.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mdswan/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mercedes.swan IG:https://www.instagram.com/mercedes.swan YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFeD9kqBQ53Lg17SaTh1bSQ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@mercedes.swan Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/2205202599758678 BWL Resources: Join Black Woman Leading, The Collective - a membership community. Learn more at https://blackwomanleading.com/the-collective/ Join us at the 2027 Black Woman Leading LIVE! Conference & Retreat. June 1-4, 2027, Clearwater Beach, FL. Save your seat at www.BWLretreat.com Full podcast episodes are now on Youtube. Subscribe to the BWL channel today! Check out the BWL theme song here : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l68EqEJjXq0 Check out the BWL line dance tutorial here : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eui89AmJwUg Take the free Future-Ready Leader Assessment - https://futureready.blackwomanleading.com/ Credits: Learn about all Black Woman Leading® programs, resources, and events at www.blackwomanleading.com Learn more about our consulting work with organizations at https://knightsconsultinggroup.com/ Email Laura: info@knightsconsultinggroup.com Connect with Laura on LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauraeknights/ Follow BWL on LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/blackwomanleading Instagram: @blackwomanleading Facebook: @blackwomanleading Youtube: @blackwomanleading Podcast Music & Production: Marshall Knights - https://marshallknights.com/ Graphics: Dara Adams Listen and follow the podcast on all major platforms: Apple Podcasts Spotify Stitcher iHeartRadio Audible Podbay






