
Episode #183
Life, Unedited: Episode 3: The Dreams We Never Start
What happens when you’ve spent so much of your life caring for everyone else that you can no longer answer the question, What do I want for myself? In this episode, Monica Wisdom explores care giving, self-neglect, perfectionism, ambition and the dreams women keep postponing for “one day.” She looks at why so many women, especially Black women, become deeply skilled at showing up for everyone else while quietly putting their own lives on hold. The conversation also explores finding yourself again in midlife, reclaiming your imagination, and creating the time, space and focus to begin living the life you keep imagining. In this episode: Why so many women reach midlife wondering what they actually want The relationship between care giving, achievement and self-neglect Why putting yourself first can feel uncomfortable What happens when your dreams remain in the journal instead of becoming your life Finding yourself again after years of responsibility Reclaiming your imagination and your ability to envision something different The emotional, physical and financial cost of continually deferring your own life Continue the conversation Join the Black Women Amplified email list for more conversations about Black women, identity, reinvention, visibility and what it means to create a life that belongs to you. Join us at www.blackwomenamplified.com . Ready to do something with what you’ve been imagining? The Envision Intensive is Monica Wisdom’s private experience for women who are ready to give shape to what comes next. Through guided reflection, vision and intentional action, the experience creates space to clarify what you want and begin moving toward it. Learn more about The Envision Intensive at www.blackwomenamplified.com .






