
Episode #2
You Haven’t Overcome It, You Live With It - Michelle Steiner
In this episode of Blether with Barberra , Brian continues his conversation with writer, speaker, photographer and paraeducator Michelle Steiner about hidden disability, success and identity. Michelle discusses a common assumption she encounters: because she has achieved things in her life, people sometimes believe she must have “overcome” her learning disability. But success and disability are not opposites. Michelle still encounters everyday tasks she has to approach differently, while also building a life around the things she does extremely well. The conversation explores self-worth, self-advocacy, young people with disabilities, asking for help, accepting disability as part of identity and why visible achievement should not be mistaken for the disappearance of support needs or challenges. What if success does not prove somebody overcame their disability — but shows what they built while living with it?

