
Breakthrough with Thais Gibson Podcast
THIS Is The Dismissive Avoidant When They’re Infatuated: Limerence & Avoidance Explained
Heal From Heartbreak at the Root. Try the Breakup Course Free With Your 7-day Trial. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-24-26&el=podcast Can a Dismissive Avoidant experience limerence? The answer may surprise you. While they often appear emotionally detached, Dismissive Avoidants can experience intense infatuation but it's usually driven by subconscious unmet needs rather than genuine emotional intimacy. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson explains how Dismissive Avoidants experience limerence and why intense infatuation is often very different from developing genuine love or emotional connection. She explores limerence as a subconscious coping mechanism that causes us to idealize someone based on the unmet needs and traits we project onto them, rather than who they truly are. Using real-world examples, Thais illustrates why Dismissive Avoidants often develop limerence toward emotionally unavailable people or individuals they have little chance of being with. Because these relationships remain largely fantasy-based, they allow Avoidants to experience attraction without confronting their deeper fears of vulnerability, intimacy, and dependence. She also explains how limerence can reveal the specific emotional needs and personal qualities that are missing or out of balance in your own life. Most importantly, she shows that limerence isn't something to fear it's valuable information. By identifying the unmet needs beneath the obsession and learning healthier ways to fulfill them, you can transform heartbreak and infatuation into lasting personal growth and healthier relationships. Key Takeaways ✔️ Dismissive Avoidants can absolutely experience limerence and intense infatuation ✔️ Limerence is often love for the idea of a person rather than the reality ✔️ Unmet emotional needs frequently drive obsessive attraction ✔️ Fantasy relationships allow Avoidants to avoid vulnerability and commitment ✔️ Limerence often develops toward emotionally unavailable or unattainable people ✔️ Identifying your unmet needs creates a pathway toward healing ✔️ Personal growth begins by meeting those needs in healthy, sustainable ways Timestamps 00:00 – Do Dismissive Avoidants Fall Into Limerence? 00:31 – What is Limerence? 02:27 – Example: The Dismissive Avoidant in Limerence 05:53 – They Will Feel Limerence Towards People They Have No Chance With 06:41 – How to Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 09:11 – Limerence Reveals What is Out of Balance in Your Life Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Become an IAT Relationship Coach https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Read the New Attachment Theory Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/book/the-new-attachment-theory?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=the-new-attachment-theory&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast-page&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

