
Carry As You Climb
Good Enough to Start: Alyia Gaskins on Learning to Lead in Public
What changes when you stop waiting to feel like a leader…and start communicating like one? Before becoming Mayor of Alexandria, Alyia Gaskins thought the job would largely be about running effective meetings. Less than two years in, she sees it differently: the mayor is the city’s chief communicator. That realization has shaped how she leads through everything from severe weather to federal workforce disruption. Alyia now posts a short video for residents every day, often without perfect lighting, a polished setup, or even a quiet room. What matters is showing up clearly and consistently enough that people know what is happening, and know their mayor is paying attention. In this episode of Carry As You Climb, Alyia joins Nan Whaley to talk about recognizing the leader others had long seen in her, running before she knew exactly how, and replacing perfection with the courage to begin. Her lesson: leadership isn't proving you already have every answer. It is communicating honestly, listening closely, and being willing to learn where people can see you. Conversation Highlights: Believe what others already see in you: Alyia reflects on the years between being told she was a leader and finally trusting herself enough to step forward. The job is communication: how a prolonged ice storm transformed a simple daily video into one of her most important connections with residents. Good enough creates momentum: why releasing the need for perfect plans, messages, and conditions makes more ideas, and better leadership, possible. Listen before designing the solution: what young people taught Alexandria about making civic participation and mental-health support genuinely accessible. Resources Mentioned: Mayor Alyia Gaskins, City of Alexandria @alyia4alx on Instagram — where the daily videos live CitiesRX Bloomberg Harvard City Leadership Initiative ALIVE! , Alexandria's food and emergency assistance network Carpenter's Shelter Kim McGuinness , the first Mayor of the North East in the UK — Gaskins's answer to the one-woman question Abbott Elementary (ABC) About Our Guest: Alyia Gaskins is the Mayor of Alexandria, Virginia, and the first African American woman elected to the role. Before becoming mayor, she served on Alexandria City Council and built a career at the intersection of public health, housing, urban planning, and community investment. She is also the founder of CitiesRX, a consulting practice focused on creating healthier communities through policy and partnerships. Alyia holds graduate degrees in public health from the University of Pittsburgh and urban and regional planning from Georgetown University. About the Host: Nan Whaley is a longtime community leader and public servant. She's currently the CEO of Planned Parenthood of Southwest Ohio. She served as Mayor of Dayton, Ohio, from 2014 - 2022. Nan has also presided over the United Conference of Mayors. She's a feminist, daughter, aunt, sister, and friend. About the Show: Carry As You Climb focuses on elevating the voices of women in leadership from Ohio and across the United States. The podcast features guests who give special attention to not only busting through doors to lead but also holding the door open for more women behind them. In other words, they carry as they climb. We focus on leadership development and leadership lessons. Plus, we share personal experiences to inspire the inclusion of more diverse leaders in business, government, and the nonprofit sector. Connect with Carry As You Climb Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | Twitter | LinkedIn Stay up to date with Nan's Substack: substack.com/@nanwhaley Join the Climb: If this conversation moved you, share it with someone who needs to hear it, subscribe to Carry As You Climb, and leave a rating or review wherever you listen. Produced by: Collective Change Communications - Kelly Sakalas & Jeni Keeler Note: The opinions expressed by host Nan Whaley on this podcast are hers alone and do not represent any organization with which she is affiliated.

