
Episode #3
S3. E3. How Shiloh Reed Balances Photography, Somatic Work, and Fire Family Life
Audra is joined by Shiloh Reed, a photographer, relationship coach, somatic practitioner, and professional with a background in marriage and family therapy. Shiloh shares how stress affects the body and why it can take time for firefighters to transition from high alert at work to being present at home. In This Episode Shiloh's journey into psychology, trauma support, and photography Her work with No Silence, No Violence , a nonprofit supporting survivors with counseling and practical resources How the nervous system responds to stress Why firefighters may need time and intentional support to transition home after a shift Co-regulation and ways family members can communicate about stress Simple movement-based tools for adults and children What emotional safety can look like for survivors How trust and emotional awareness shape Shiloh's photography work Shiloh's thoughts on trauma, generational patterns, and pursuing progress over perfection Takeaways to Try Plan the transition home. Ask what helps your firefighter transition home after a shift, and make a plan together. Name what you're feeling. Children won't assume they caused an adult's mood. Try a movement-based reset. Push against a wall, take a brisk walk, or shake out tension. Practice repair. When a conversation starts off poorly, take a clear "do-over." Resources Mentioned Books Securely Attached by Eli Harwood Attached : Recommended for couples who want to better understand connection and relationship patterns. Organizations and Businesses No Silence, No Violence : A nonprofit offering survivors counseling and practical assistance. https://www.speakingoutnsnv.org/ Integrative Rising : Shiloh's coaching business. Instagram: @integrative_rising Shiloh Colleen Photography : https://www.shilohcolleenphotography.com/ Audra Carrion: website: carryoncarrion.com IG: @carryonfirefamily Timestamps TimeTopic 00:00 Opening and episode setup 01:18 Stress and the nervous system 03:02 Introducing Shiloh Reed 05:59 Shiloh's path into psychology 07:23 Working with survivors of relationship abuse 09:06 Partnering with No Silence, No Violence 11:02 Practical support the nonprofit provides 12:24 Shiloh's family and firefighter life 15:22 Somatic work and the mind-body connection 19:34 Why firefighters may not be able to switch off immediately at home 23:15 Co-regulation and supporting each other 26:41 Helping children understand a parent's mood 29:51 Emotional safety for survivors 32:36 Chronic stress and the body's responses 34:33 How psychology informs Shiloh's photography 40:00 Book recommendations 42:39 Shiloh's perspective on trauma 44:26 Somatic movement tools she uses 46:07 "Robot jellyfish" for helping kids regulate 48:40 Progress over perfection 49:49 Shiloh's hopes for her family's legacy 51:17 Finding Shiloh's photography work 51:54 Supporting No Silence, No Violence 53:40 Shiloh's coaching work


