
Episode #53
Let the Glitter Settle: Mindfulness, Middle School, and the Power of Hope with Stefanie Lachenauer
In this episode of Chitty Chats with Stacy , Stacy sits down with Stefanie Lachenauer, 2025 New Jersey Teacher of the Year, author of Let the Glitter Settle , middle school educator, and board member with the Attachment and Trauma Network. Stefanie shares what 20 years in the classroom have taught her about “kids these days,” technology, boredom, creativity, regulation, and why mindfulness belongs in the school day. Together, Stacy and Stefanie explore practical ways teachers and parents can help kids build self-awareness, manage big emotions, take breaks from screens, and reconnect through play, relationship, and community. Stefanie also talks about her book, Let the Glitter Settle , and the glitter jar metaphor for dysregulation: when life shakes us up, we can pause, breathe, and let the glitter settle so we can see clearly again. This conversation is full of wisdom for educators, parents, and anyone who cares about helping young people feel safe, regulated, creative, and hopeful. Stacy and Stefanie also discuss teacher wellness, community care, classroom agreements, sleep, snacks, travel, and the reminder that hope often lives on the other side of the hard stuff. Connect with Stefanie: www.StefanieLachenauer.com steflach@gmail.com @lettheglittersettle @stefanielachenauer @njstoy2025 Buy the book: https://a.co/d/09riyAjd






