
Episode #324
Getting REAL About Us, Them, and the Need to Be Right with Jodee
A Facebook meme about gas prices and the Keystone pipeline sent me looking for more information. But what caught my attention wasn't really the pipeline. It was the conversation underneath the meme—and the language people were using about "us" and "them." I began wondering: Who exactly is "they"? What makes someone part of "us"? And why can questioning a group's assumptions be interpreted as evidence that you belong to the other side? Then the inquiry became more personal. As I tried to correct what I saw happening in the conversation, I began to recognize that I might be demonstrating the very pattern I was pointing out. I became committed to being right. I created my own "them." And in my attempt to correct, I may have forgotten to connect. In this solo episode of Circle Up & Get REAL, I explore the relationship between belonging, certainty, curiosity, and our very human desire to know that we are on the right side. I also wonder whether we can create communities with a meaningful "us" that doesn't require someone else to become "them." And yes, there is also a meme involving moose heads, a man tied to the roof of a vehicle, and the sweeping conclusion that men cannot be left alone. We can practice discernment, notice our own patterns—and still laugh.






