
Episode #169
169. What happens when the path you’re expected to follow doesn’t feel right? With Chiza Westcarr
What happens when the life that’s expected of you isn’t the life you want for yourself? In this episode, we hear from clinical nutritionist, dermal clinician, menopause coach, and researcher Chiza Westcarr, whose life has been shaped by a series of courageous decisions to choose the path less travelled. Growing up in a high-achieving family, the expectations were clear: law or medicine. Her siblings followed those paths. Chiza didn’t. Instead, she forged her own path, taking her across countries and careers, and eventually into the work she does today, supporting women through menopause. Chiza shares the self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and uncertainty behind some of her biggest decisions, what it takes to back yourself when there’s no roadmap, and how choosing differently can impact the relationships that matter most. We also explore what can happen when you question the way things have always been done, why Chiza challenged the aesthetics industry’s approach to menopausal skin, and how that led her to create her own menopause conference and now undertake a PhD in menopause research. And we look at why midlife can be an extraordinary opportunity rather than something to endure, especially when we could have another 40 or 50 years ahead of us. If you’ve ever felt pulled towards a path others don’t quite understand, this conversation is a powerful reminder of what can be possible when you back yourself and take it anyway. Key takeaways: o What it takes to choose your own path when others expect something different. o Why fear and imposter syndrome don’t disappear with courage. o How taking the path less travelled can change your relationships. o How questioning the status quo can lead to something bigger. o Why midlife could be the beginning of your next chapter. o What women need to understand about their health through menopause. o Why the path others don’t understand may be the right one for you. Find out more about Chiza: : Website: Chiza Westcarr Website: FloraBiome Instagram: @chizawestcarr_ Instagram: @flora_biome Instagram: @thrivingthroughmenopausebycw Facebook: Chiza Westcarr LinkedIn: Chiza Westcarr Thriving Through Menopause Symposium 2026 COURAGEOUS ME – THE BOOK Grab your copy of Courageous Me – The courage to turn someday into today. SOMEDAY to TODAY – event A one-day transformational experience for women who are done waiting for 'someday'. Friday 9 October 2026 Find out more and grab your spot here. Where to find me: Website: Kim Payne LinkedIn: Kim Payne Instagram: @iamkimpayne Facebook: KimPayneBiz

