Dateless in Delray

Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On

Dateless in Delray is a society podcast hosted by Susan Shoer, with 85 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Susan Shoer hosts Dateless in Delray, a society show with 85 episodes published.

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  Ep. 85 - You Thought It Went Well: What Your Date Really Said with Joy Wayne

  Sep 29, 202642 min

  Two people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what happens after the date, when each person privately tells the matchmaker what they really thought. Joy shares what men and women notice, the behaviors that quietly undermine a promising connection, what “no chemistry” may actually mean and when attraction deserves more time. They also explore how confidence can be mistaken for arrogance, independence for disinterest and nervousness for a lack of personality. It’s an honest, revealing look at the dating feedback most of us never hear—and what it can teach us about how we show up, connect and give love a genuine chance. Learn more about Joy at PalmBeachIntroduction.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

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  Ep. 84 - Are Relationships for Suckers? The Truth About Making Love Last with Belle Gayer

  Sep 22, 202638 min

  Is lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from more than 55 years of marriage and thousands of relationship questions. They discuss chemistry versus compatibility, handling recurring conflict, maintaining intimacy, expressing gratitude and knowing the difference between healthy commitment and losing yourself. Belle also shares practical wisdom for divorced and later-in-life daters who still believe love is worth the effort.

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  Ep. 83 - Microwave Love: Why We Rush Romance and Starve Connection—with Rose Lambert

  Sep 15, 202647 min

  Would you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker, entrepreneur, and mystic Rose Lambert, founder of Rose Match Inc., a nonprofit addressing loneliness through education and community. Rose explains why instant chemistry is lust rather than love, why she asks singles to give someone at least three dates, and how endless options have taught us to discard people instead of building with them. They also discuss what men actually need from a partnership, the cost of postponing love until the career is built, why financial security and a full social calendar don't cure loneliness, and how raising your own energy changes who you attract. Whether you're swiping, dating, or rebuilding after divorce, this conversation makes the case that love is grown, not found. Learn more about Rose at roselambertmatchmaker.com, or join her free masterclasses and community at rosematch.org.

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  Ep. 82 - Is My Ex Really a Narcissist? Dating, Personality Disorders & Mental Health with Frederic Bien

  Sep 8, 20261h 1m

  “He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply labeling people who hurt or disappoint us? Susan Shoer talks with Frederic Bien, President of the Personality Disorders Awareness Network (PDAN), about the difference between difficult personality traits and diagnosable personality disorders, how emotional dysregulation and attachment patterns can affect relationships, and why understanding someone’s behavior doesn’t mean excusing unhealthy or hurtful treatment. They also explore boundaries, relationship instability, fear of abandonment, the tendency to diagnose our dates, and whether people with personality disorders can have healthy, loving relationships. Learn more and find resources at pdan.org.

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  Ep. 81 - Chemistry Test: Is It Love, Lust, or Your Nervous System with Pavini Moray, PhD

  Sep 1, 202645 min

  That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar. Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner, about the body’s role in attraction, desire, attachment and relationship patterns. They explore why intense chemistry can sometimes be confused with compatibility, how past experiences can shape who we’re drawn to, and what it means to feel genuinely safe and connected with another person. Pavini also shares how somatic awareness can help us recognize old patterns, make more conscious relationship choices, and understand the difference between excitement, anxiety, lust and lasting intimacy. Learn more about Pavini at pavinimoray.com.

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