Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On
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Ep. 79 - Boy School, Girl School: Learning to Understand Each Other with Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton
Aug 18, 202651 min
Why do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and intimacy specialists Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton, co-creators of The Space Between® Approach, to explore the invisible lessons men and women learn about love long before they ever enter a relationship. They call it "Boy School" and "Girl School"—the unspoken emotional education that shapes how we communicate, handle conflict, express vulnerability, and seek connection. Through humor, honesty, and real-life examples, Naomi and Martin reveal why so many relationship struggles aren't caused by incompatibility, but by two very different emotional languages colliding. Whether you're dating, married, divorced, or looking for love after 50, this eye-opening conversation will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and why good people can keep missing each other—even when love is there.
Ep. 78 - Over It: Why Dating Apps Are Dying and What Comes Next with Scot MacKay
Aug 11, 202657 min
Are dating apps on life support? After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, relationship coach and dating strategist Scot MacKay joins Susan Shoer to explore why so many people are walking away from the apps—and what comes next. Together, they discuss the growing frustration with online dating, why technology alone can't create chemistry, and how today's singles can use AI, social media, communities, and real-world opportunities to build authentic connections. Scot also shares practical strategies for creating a dating life that doesn't revolve around algorithms—and why the future of dating may look a lot more human than digital. Whether you're ready to delete the apps or simply want to date smarter, this conversation offers fresh insight, hope, and actionable advice for finding love in a changing world.
Ep. 77 - Love After Loss: Can the People We Lose Help Us Find Love Again with Susan Anderson
Aug 4, 202641 min
Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan explores the idea that the loved ones we've lost may continue to guide, support, and even influence our lives from beyond. Drawing from her own experiences as a medium and the insights from her book, Communicating with Grace: The Awakening of a Psychic Medium, Susan shares stories of spiritual connection, signs from the other side, and how grief can sometimes open unexpected doors to healing, hope, and even new love. Whether you're a believer, a skeptic, or simply curious about what happens after loss, this thought-provoking conversation offers a fresh perspective on love, loss, and the enduring bonds that connect us. Learn more at SusanAnderson.net.
Ep. 76 - You Never Listen to Me: The Relationship Warning Men Ignore with Hoady Spencer
Jul 28, 202653 min
Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and relationship coach Hoady Spencer to discuss his book,"Listen Baby: A Man's Guide to Better Relationships." Hoady explains why genuine listening is one of the most overlooked—and transformative—skills in love. Together, they explore why people often listen to respond instead of understand, how emotional validation can strengthen intimacy, and the simple communication shifts that can dramatically improve romantic relationships. Whether you're dating, in a long-term partnership, or starting over after 50, this conversation offers practical insights for creating deeper trust, fewer misunderstandings, and stronger connections. If you've ever wanted to feel more understood—or become a better partner—this episode is full of wisdom you'll use long after the conversation ends.
Ep. 75 - Delicious DNA: Why Some Men Get All the Dates with Suki Nefertiti
Jul 21, 202639 min
Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making. In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with human sexuality expert Suki Nefertiti to unpack the most common dating mistakes men make—and how a few simple shifts can dramatically change the way they're perceived by women. From being basic, cheap, or performative to developing what Suki calls "Delicious DNA," this conversation explores attraction, confidence, emotional intelligence, and the qualities that create genuine connection. Drawing on psychology, evolutionary biology, and real-world dating experiences, Suki offers practical, often surprising advice that benefits men and women alike. Whether you're dating, coaching someone who is, or simply fascinated by modern relationships, this episode delivers fresh insights, plenty of laughs, and actionable takeaways you can use on your very next date.
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