
Episode #14
A Second Chance at Life, Love, and Joy with Laura Durfee
Episode Summary At nine years old, Laura Durfee went to a sleepover and woke up a week later from a medically induced coma. A catastrophic brain bleed left doctors telling her parents she was unlikely to survive. After four brain surgeries, Laura not only survived, she relearned how to walk, feed herself, get dressed, and do the everyday things most of us take for granted. Today, Laura lives with an invisible disability and a very different perspective on life. In this episode of DunnWise Perspectives , Laura shares how that experience shaped her drive to achieve, why she spent years hiding her vision loss, and what finally made her realize she no longer needed to prove what she was capable of. That realization eventually led Laura to walk away from a successful corporate career as a VP of Talent and launch The Relationship Recruiter, a Nashville-based matchmaking firm that applies the principles she learned during 16 years in recruiting to help busy professionals make better connections. We also talk about the surprising similarities between recruiting and dating, the difference between preferences and true deal breakers, why values matter more than the perfect checklist, and yes, why some men may be a little "optimistic" about their height. Most importantly, Laura shares what she's learned from getting a second chance at life: sometimes growth, connection, and even joy require us to get uncomfortable and take a risk. In this episode: How Laura survived a catastrophic brain bleed at age nine The lasting impact of living with an invisible disability Why high achievement became a way of proving what she could do How recruiting became the foundation for a matchmaking business Why dating can feel like a second job Preferences versus true relationship deal breakers The role of values in finding the right partner Why Laura walked away from corporate success to pursue something that brought her joy The importance of taking risks and embracing your whole self Free resource: Laura created Meet People Like a Recruiter , a seven-tip field guide to help singles increase their chances of meeting the right person. https://www.relationshiprecruiter.com/dunnwise Connect with Laura" Website: The Relationship Recruiter | Nashville matchmaking service Social Media: @relationshiprecruiter LinkedIn: Laura Durfee | LinkedIn Connect with Doris Email: doris@dunnwise.com Website: www.dunnwise.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/doris-dunn Schedule a Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/dunnwise-consulting/30min_discovery_call Want to Be a Guest? Have a story of resilience, reinvention, or overcoming a challenge? I’d love to hear from you. Submit your story here: https://forms.gle/gJWpVcsZ5wTwfAgSA






