
Episode #166
#165. How God's Mercy Changes the Way We Parent | 2 Kings 24-25, 2 Chronicles 36
The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms | Entrusted Ministries What do we do when our children make choices that disappoint us? And how does understanding the incredible mercy we've received from God change the way we parent? In this episode of The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms , Stephanie Hickox finishes 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles as we continue through our chronological Bible reading plan. As Jerusalem falls, the temple is destroyed, and Judah is carried into exile, we see both the devastating consequences of sin and the astonishing mercy and sovereignty of God. And even in the darkest chapters, Scripture points us toward hope: God's ultimate plan was never thwarted. He was preparing the way for the day when He would come to dwell with His people—not merely in a temple, but through Jesus Christ, Emmanuel, God with us. Along the way, Stephanie draws a powerful parenting lesson from God's mercy: when we remember how much God has forgiven us, we're better equipped to respond to our children's failures with grace, patience, and faithful discipline. In this episode, you'll discover: What happens when Judah finally experiences the judgment God has been warning about for generations Why the destruction of Jerusalem and Solomon's temple was so devastating How 2 Chronicles 36 reveals God's persistent compassion toward His people Why God's discipline doesn't mean His plans for His people have failed The remarkable mercy shown to Jehoiachin at the end of 2 Kings How remembering God's forgiveness can transform the way we discipline our children Why our children's failures can become opportunities to model grace rather than respond with impatience How God used even pagan kings like Nebuchadnezzar and Cyrus to accomplish His sovereign purposes Why the 70-year exile fulfilled God's Word through Jeremiah How the ending of Chronicles points directly toward the coming of Christ What it means for God to truly dwell with His people Why the presence of God should be something our children see beautifully modeled in our everyday lives When Your Child Disappoints You One of the most personal parenting applications in this episode comes from the mercy shown to Jehoiachin. After reading about the wickedness of Judah's kings, it's striking to see an undeserving king receive kindness and favor. And it raises an important question for us as mothers: How does remembering God's mercy toward us change the way we respond to our children's sin? We know our children's behavior can be exhausting. Disobedience, selfishness, disrespect, bad decisions, and repeated failures can wear us down. But we're not parenting perfect children. And we're not perfect mothers. When we regularly remember the depth of our own sin—and the depth of God's grace—we can discipline our children without forgetting that we, too, are recipients of radical mercy. Grace doesn't mean ignoring sin or removing consequences. It means correcting our children as people who desperately need the same Savior we do. God's Discipline Doesn't Mean His Plans Have Failed The destruction of Jerusalem could have looked like the end of God's promises. The temple was destroyed. The city was burned. The people were exiled. But God's purposes had not failed. God's plans for His people cannot be thwarted by their sin, rebellion, or circumstances. That's an important truth for Christian moms, especially when we look at our children's lives and don't see the spiritual growth we hoped for. We faithfully teach. We pray. We correct. We model repentance. We point them toward Scripture. But ultimately, God is the One who works in their hearts. We can entrust our children to Him without pretending that their choices don't matter. The Lord Has Always Desired to Dwell With His People The destruction of the temple makes the title of this podcast especially meaningful. Throughout Scripture, we have watched God make His dwelling place among His people: In the garden In the wilderness In the tabernacle In Solomon's temple And ultimately, in Christ The temple was never the final destination. The story was always moving toward Emmanuel—God with us. And through Christ, we can now draw near to God. That is the greatest treasure we can give our children—not a perfect home, a successful life, or comfortable circumstances, but a mother who genuinely walks with the Lord . Our prayer should be that God's presence would be so beautiful in our lives that our children would want to walk with Him too. Finishing 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles! There's another reason this episode is special: we're finishing 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles! If you've been following along with the chronological Bible reading plan, you've made it through another major portion of Scripture. Together we've completed: Job → Genesis → Exodus → Leviticus → Numbers → Deuteronomy → Joshua → Judges → Ruth → 1 Samuel → 2 Samuel → 1 Kings → 2 Kings → 1 Chronicles → 2 Chronicles → Proverbs → Ecclesiastes → Song of Solomon → Isaiah → Hosea → Amos → Obadiah → Jonah → Micah → Nahum → Zephaniah And we're getting closer and closer to the New Testament—and to focusing our eyes on Jesus. Bible Reading for This Episode 2 Kings 24–25 2 Chronicles 36 If you're following along with the Dwelling Place chronological Bible reading plan , read these chapters alongside today's episode as we continue seeing God's story unfold in its historical context. Questions for Christian Moms to Consider When my children disappoint me, do I respond primarily from frustration or from an awareness of God's mercy toward me? How can remembering my own need for grace change the way I discipline? Am I trusting God with the parts of my children's lives that I cannot control? What does my everyday life communicate to my children about the value of God's presence? Would my children describe my relationship with the Lord as something beautiful and desirable? How can I intentionally model repentance, dependence, and worship in front of my children? A Prayer for Moms Lord, remind us of the mercy You have shown us when we become impatient with our families. Help us remember that we are recipients of grace and that we cannot take credit for the sanctifying work You are doing in our own lives. Teach us to discipline our children faithfully while extending the same mercy we have received from You. And above all, make Your presence beautiful in our homes. May our children see mothers who genuinely love Your Word, seek Your presence, repent when we fail, and delight in walking with You. Thank You, Jesus, that You are Emmanuel—God with us. Keep walking through Scripture with us: The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms helps Christian moms read the Bible chronologically, understand Scripture in context, and discover how God's Word applies to everyday motherhood. If you're looking for a Bible podcast for busy moms, chronological Bible reading plan, biblical parenting encouragement, Christian parenting wisdom, or help studying the Bible as a mom , this episode is part of an ongoing journey through the whole story of Scripture. Because what moms do over and over matters to God. Friend, you don't have to parent perfectly to parent faithfully. Keep bringing your children—and yourself—to the God who is perfectly faithful. Resources Mentioned: Entrusted With a Child's Heart The Again Podcast : Interview with Chris McKenna Part 1, Part 2 Full-Circle Discipline Resources Journey Through the...

