Welcome to the Emotional Balance Sheet, the financial planning podcast for working parents who are building careers and raising kids at the same time.If you and your spouse are both senior-level professionals, raising kids in school or college, and are tired of stitching together four different specialists to run your financial life, this show is built for you.Each conversation tackles the planning conversations real families are having: education costs, retirement timing, equity compensation, career transitions, estate coordination, and the emotional weight that lies beneath it all.Hosted by Paul Fenner, Certified Financial Planner®, Enrolled Agent, and founder of TAMMA Capital. Paul is also a parent to four kids, including a set of triplets, so he knows the pace firsthand.TAMMA Capital is a private family office that brings financial planning, tax, and investments under one umbrella. To schedule a conversation, visit www.tammacapital.com or email pfenner@tammacapital.com.
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Episode #251
When the Right Call Looks Wrong
Aug 13, 20267 min
Work with Paul: Schedule a 30-minute conversation What do you do when the smartest money decision you made is the one you can't stop second-guessing? In this episode, I dig into a line from Morgan Housel about how it's possible to make good decisions that don't work and bad decisions that work beautifully. I talk about why that lands so hard for families who built their careers in fields where good process reliably produces good results, and why money refuses to play by those rules. I use the example I see most often: families with a large portion of their net worth tied up in company stock, and a decision to trim it or hold it that ends up looking wrong for a while, either way. I also share a decision from my own life that looked questionable for a couple of years before it didn't, and what that taught me about separating the quality of a decision from an outcome I couldn't control. We close with one small question you can ask about the money decision you keep replaying, the one that finally lets you put it down. Connect with Paul If you're a working parent juggling a senior-level career and a growing family, and you're tired of coordinating four different advisors to run your financial life, I offer complimentary 30-minute conversations. Schedule one here . For resources discussed in this episode, visit tammacapital.com/podcast . Follow Paul on LinkedIn . Resources Featured in This Episode: Funded Contentment: Am I Going to Be Okay? The Financial Story You Keep Telling Yourself Pessimism Sounds Smart, Optimism Builds Wealth
Work with Paul: Schedule a 30-minute conversation What if your money problem was never a behavior problem? I keep coming back to the idea that doing well with money is mostly about patience and long-term thinking. I believe that. But what if you're already cleared that bar, and not where you want to be? You saved through every downturn since 2008. You never panic sold. But your financial lives are still not where you want them to be, and it costs real money. I walk through what actually goes wrong: two 401(k)s that were never looked at in the same window, a household stock allocation that nobody chose on purpose, equity comp that quietly builds concentration and leaves a tax gap that shows up in April, and beneficiary forms that have not been touched in over a decade. None of these is a behavior failure. They are decisions with no deadline attached, which is a different problem entirely. I also talk about the deadline I had to invent for myself, and why it's still uncomfortable to say it out loud. Connect with Paul If you're a working parent juggling a senior-level career and a growing family, and you're tired of coordinating four different advisors to run your financial life, I offer complimentary 30-minute conversations. Schedule one here . For resources discussed in this episode, visit tammacapital.com/podcast . Follow Paul on LinkedIn . Resources Featured in This Episode: Can we Really Do That? When Savers and Spenders Share a Life Aligning Assets and Liabilities: Temporal Diversification
Work with Paul: Schedule a 30-minute conversation When was the last time you actually read the beneficiary designation on your 401(k) at your previous employer? In May, I sent every family I work with a current readout of their beneficiary designations across every account I track for them. It was the highest-response email I sent all year. For some families, everything was clean. For others, there were gaps we addressed that week. In this episode, I walk through what's actually on those forms, why a beneficiary designation overrides your will, and the technical points that catch busy working families off guard: ERISA spousal consent on 401(k)s, the HSA tax bomb for non-spouse beneficiaries, the SECURE Act 2.0 ten-year rule now in full enforcement, and the difference between per stirpes and per capita. The action this week is simple. Pull up the beneficiary designation on one account, any account, and just read it. If you can't find it, that's the result. Then set a recurring calendar reminder once a year to do the same for every account in the household. Connect with Paul If you're a working parent juggling a senior-level career and a growing family, and you're tired of coordinating four different advisors to manage your finances, I offer complimentary 30-minute conversations. Schedule one here . For resources discussed in this episode, visit tammacapital.com/podcast . Follow Paul on LinkedIn . Resources Featured in This Episode: Why Stories Move Us More Than Numbers Why Quiet Time Is Your Most Valuable Financial Skill Your Biggest Financial Risk Isn't the Market
Work with Paul: Schedule a 30-minute conversation What if you already know the financial principles you need? What if the problem isn't strategy, but execution across a life that's grown too complicated to coordinate yourself? This week, I work through a Morgan Housel idea pulled from a John Reed book. Most fields or industries have three to twelve core principles, with the rest focused on implementation. In finance, the principles are stable. Your life is not. I share a story about a dual-income family with three kids and six accounts spread across three custodians, where nobody was actually steering the ship. And a personal story about how long it takes to act on principles you already know. The action this week is small. Write down the five to eight financial principles you actually live by. Audit your decisions over the last six months against them. The gaps aren't a strategy problem. They're an application problem. Connect with Paul If you're a working parent juggling a senior-level career and a growing family, and are tired of coordinating four different advisors to run your financial life, I do complimentary 30-minute conversations. Schedule one here . For resources discussed in this episode, visit tammacapital.com/podcast . Follow Paul on LinkedIn . Resources Featured in This Episode: How a Financial Planner Can Help You Aligning Personal Interests with Financial Objectives: A Five-Step Guide to Effective Wealth Planning Spring Clean Your Finances; 5 Ways to Get Financially Organized
The Version of You Your Money Is Still Working For
Jul 16, 202610 min
Work with Paul: Schedule a 30-minute conversation When was the last time you actually updated your financial life to match the person you've become, instead of the person you were when you first set everything up? This week, I break down two questions about disagreement and experience and turn them inward. I share the story of a senior director whose retirement contribution rate, cash reserve target, and investment allocation were all set for a version of her that hadn't existed in over a decade. And I share what 13 years of moving taught me about how my 30-year-old instincts still fire in a life that no longer needs them. Try this in the next week: pick one financial habit you've held for more than five years. Ask when you formed it, what's changed in your life since, and whether the habit has actually changed too. Most people find at least two updates waiting. Connect with Paul If you're a working parent juggling a senior-level career and a growing family, and are tired of coordinating four different advisors to run your financial life, I do complimentary 30-minute conversations. Schedule one here . For resources discussed in this episode, visit tammacapital.com/podcast . Follow Paul on LinkedIn . Resources Featured in This Episode: The Questions We Forget to Ask Ourselves The Story That Spent Your Money The Scoreboard We Never Chose
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