Ern and TaTa

After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern dating standards, or “who’s really right,” this podcast challenges how people think about relationships today. If you’ve ever said “that’s exactly how it is in my house,” this is the podcast for you.

Ern and TaTa is a society podcast hosted by Ernest Holmon, with 33 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Ernest Holmon hosts Ern and TaTa, a society show with 33 episodes published.

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  Ern & Tata | Breaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 1

  Aug 18, 202636 min

  Ern & Tata | Breaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 1 When you stood at the altar and said “for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health…” did you really understand what you were agreeing to? In Part 1 of this two-part Ern & Tata conversation, the couple goes back to the traditional marriage vows and breaks them down piece by piece —but this time through the eyes of two people who have actually experienced the highs, lows, changes, and realities of marriage. Ern and Tata discuss what it really means to choose your spouse, to have and to hold, stay committed through better and worse, survive financial ups and downs, stand beside one another through sickness and health, and the difference between simply loving your spouse and truly cherishing them. Everything was going pretty smoothly… until they got to one little word: “OBEY.” That's when the confusion started! What does “obey” actually mean in a modern marriage? Should a wife obey her husband? Is there supposed to be one leader in a marriage, or should both people have equal say? And does Ern even understand what he signed up for? The conversation gets so good that we had to make this a TWO-PARTER . Watch Part 1 and let us know in the comments: Would YOU include “obey” in your marriage vows today? Real marriage. Real conversations. Real opinions. Part 2 coming next — because once we got to “obey,” we knew this conversation wasn't ending anytime soon. #ErnAndTata #MarriageVows #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipPodcast #MarriageTalk #LoveAndMarriage #Obey #HusbandAndWife #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #BlackLove #MarriageConversation #fyp #ernandiso4president

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  When Enough Is Enough

  Aug 13, 202641 min

  When Enough Is Enough | Ern & Tata Podcast When do you finally reach the point where you say… enough is enough? In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast , Ern and Tata have a real conversation about relationships, change, patience, and knowing when you've given someone enough chances. How long should you wait for someone to change? At what point does patience turn into accepting behavior you know isn't working? And what happens when you realize that sometimes the biggest changes have to happen within yourself and the relationship itself? As the conversation unfolds, Ern and Tata take things deeper by opening up about their own relationship —the different stages they've gone through, the shifts they've had to make, and some of the changes that have challenged the way they see each other and their marriage. This one gets personal. Have they ever reached a point where one of them felt like they'd had enough? What changed? What didn't? And what did they have to learn about themselves along the way? Stay tuned… because the conversation goes somewhere you might not expect. ️ Ern & Tata Podcast Real Love. Real Talk. Real Us. If you enjoy honest conversations about marriage, relationships, family, and everything that comes with building a life together, LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE. QUESTION OF THE EPISODE: How do you know when you've truly given someone enough chances to change? #ErnAndTata #WhenEnoughIsEnough #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipPodcast #MarriageTalk #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMarriage #RealRelationships #BlackLove #Podcast #fyp #ernandiso4president

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  We Don't Parent the Same... And That's Okay

  Aug 6, 202642 min

  Every parent wants the same outcome—raising respectful, responsible, and confident children—but getting there isn't always the same. In this episode of the Ern and Tata Podcast , Ern and Tata have an honest conversation about the different ways they discipline their children. Should consequences be immediate? Is talking things through more effective than punishment? When should you be strict, and when should you show grace? As parents of a blended family, the couple shares real-life experiences, the disagreements they've had behind closed doors, and how they've learned to meet in the middle while putting their children's well-being first. Whether you're a parent, planning to become one, or simply curious about how different parenting styles shape a family, this episode is full of relatable moments, laughter, and thoughtful discussion. How do you discipline your kids? Are you the stricter parent, or do you believe in talking things out? Let us know in the comments! If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE , SUBSCRIBE , and SHARE to support the Ern and Tata Podcast. #ErnAndTata #Parenting #Discipline #ParentingStyles #BlendedFamily #Marriage #FamilyPodcast #MomVsDad #GentleParenting #Respect #FamilyLife #CouplesPodcast #Relationships #RealTalk #MarriageAdvice #fyp #ernandiso4president

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  The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️

  Aug 4, 202651 min

  The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️ | Ern & Tata Podcast How do you know you've found the person you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with? In this heartfelt episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast , Ern opens up about the exact moment he realized Tata was the woman he wanted to marry. He shares what separated her from everyone else, the qualities that made him fall in love, and why that decision has never changed. The conversation takes an interesting turn when Tata asks a question many people have wondered: "What keeps you so faithful when so many men struggle with it?" Ern gives an honest and transparent answer about commitment, temptation, love, respect, and the mindset he believes every lasting relationship requires. This episode is filled with real conversations about love, loyalty, choosing your partner every day, and what it truly means to build a lasting marriage in today's world. Whether you're dating, engaged, married, or simply hoping to find your person someday, this is a conversation you won't want to miss. ❤️ In this episode: The moment Ern knew Tata was "the one" The qualities that made him choose her What true commitment really looks like Why loyalty is a daily decision What keeps Ern faithful after all these years Real conversations about marriage, trust, and lasting love If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE , COMMENT , and SUBSCRIBE to join the Ern & Tata family. We'd love to hear from you: When did you know your partner was "the one?" Or what qualities would make someone your forever person? #ErnAndTata #Marriage #Relationships #Love #MarriageAdvice #BlackLove #CouplesPodcast #RelationshipGoals #DatingAdvice #Communication #HealthyRelationships #Loyalty #Commitment #MarriageMatters #Podcast #RealTalk #LoveStory #MarriageJourney #fyp #ernandiso4president

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  The Conversations Couples Avoid

  Jul 30, 202646 min

  In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast , we dive into one of the biggest issues many relationships face—the uncomfortable silence surrounding the conversations that need to happen but often never do. Why do couples avoid difficult discussions? Is it fear of conflict, protecting feelings, or simply not knowing how to communicate? Ern and Tata share their honest thoughts and personal perspectives on how silence can slowly create distance between two people. The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Ern asks Tata a controversial question: Can a "work husband" or "work wife" ever be an acceptable outlet in a relationship? Is it harmless workplace chemistry, emotional support, or does it cross a line? The couple explores both sides of the debate while keeping it real, respectful, and entertaining. From communication and emotional needs to boundaries, trust, and modern relationship dynamics, this episode is filled with honest dialogue that many couples can relate to. We'd love to hear from you: Is having a work husband or work wife ever okay? What's the hardest conversation you've ever had in a relationship? Can a relationship survive if important conversations are continually avoided? Don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe , and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast . #RelationshipAdvice #Marriage #Communication #CouplesPodcast #ErnandTata #RealTalk #Love #Dating #WorkHusband #WorkWife #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #Relationships #MarriageTalk #RealLoveRealTalkRealUs #fyp #ernandiso4president

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