
Episode #16
Trust Is Built By... / Pastor Dennis St. Lawrence
Pastor Dennis St. Lawrence opens with Proverbs 20:6 β "Many will tell you they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly trustworthy?" β and shifts the focus from a broken world's untrustworthiness to the personal question every believer should ask: am I trustworthy? Drawing from a secular book on trust, he presents eight qualities that build trust in every area of life. Scripture Texts Proverbs 20:6; Proverbs 28:13; Ecclesiastes 9:10; 1 Corinthians 13; Ephesians 4:15 Main Points or Ideas Character - Doing what is right when no one is looking; being dependable regardless of the cost. Competency - Character without skill is incomplete. A mechanic with great integrity who cannot fix the car, or a skilled mechanic who cheats customers, both fall short. Believers must pursue excellence in whatever God has called them to do β the inward man can keep growing and improving until the day of death. Consistency - Anybody can perform well briefly, but lasting trust is built by day-in, day-out faithfulness in character and excellence. Being a "steady Eddie" β someone others know exactly what to expect from β is a powerful testimony. Conviction and Commitment - Ecclesiastes 9:10 calls believers to do whatever their hand finds with all their strength. Half-heartedness does not build trust. Passion, wholehearted commitment, and a clear sense that "this is what God wants me to do, and I am all in" are visible to everyone around us. Compassion - 1 Corinthians 13 says that oratory, knowledge, and faith without love amount to nothing β a clanging cymbal. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Truth without genuine love fails to land. Communication - Ephesians 4:15 commands speaking the truth in love. Four rules of trustworthy communication: be honest, keep current, attack the problem not the person, and act rather than react. Evasion, dishonesty, or emotional reactivity erode trust quickly. Courage - Paul stood alone when no one else would. There will be times when doing what is right draws criticism and isolation. Trusting God more than the approval of others β while remaining open to genuine correction β and maintaining a right spirit through it is what builds lasting trust. Confession - Proverbs 28:13 promises mercy to those who confess and forsake sin. Failure does not destroy trust; how a person responds to failure does. Owning mistakes without blame or excuses, seeking forgiveness, and making things right are marks of a person others can trust. Conclusion Pastor St. Lawrence closes by pointing to God as the perfect embodiment of all eight qualities β except confession, since God never sins. Because God is trustworthy, believers can trust him. And because they trust God, they should live in such a way that others can trust them.

