
Episode #62
Stop Cursing the Darkness: What It Looks Like to Build What God Is Calling You to Build with Patti Garibay
What do you do when God asks you to build something that doesn't exist yet? In this episode, I sit down with Patti Garibay—founder and Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls—for a conversation about calling, courage, and what it means to trust God with a vision that feels far bigger than you. Patti shares the remarkable story of how one conversation with her father sparked what would become a nationwide ministry that has now impacted more than one million girls. But this isn't just a story about starting an organization. It's a conversation about learning to trust God's timing, embracing humble confidence, and choosing to become a source of light in a world that often feels consumed by darkness. If you've ever sensed God nudging you toward something new—but felt underqualified, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin—this episode is for you. What We Talk About The childhood passions that became clues to Patti's lifelong calling The conversation with her father that inspired the founding of American Heritage Girls Why focusing on the reasons "why" matters more than the reasons "why not" How to move forward when you don't have the resources, experience, or roadmap The role humility, patience, and perseverance play in faithful leadership Why God often provides through people—and why you have to be willing to ask How to overcome the feeling that you're "not qualified enough" for what God is calling you to do Practical ways to keep your focus on God instead of the noise and darkness around you Why leaders need to spend more time in the Light than they do consuming the darkness How investing in the next generation shapes the future of the Kingdom Key Takeaways 1. Don't let the reasons "why not" drown out the reasons why. Every meaningful calling comes with uncertainty. Instead of rehearsing all the reasons something can't work, ask whether God may be inviting you to take the next faithful step. 2. Lead with humble confidence. True humility isn't believing you have nothing to offer. It's recognizing that whatever God calls you to do, He will equip you to do. Your confidence comes from Him—not from having all the answers. 3. God's provision often comes through people. Sometimes we're waiting for God to miraculously provide when He's already surrounded us with the relationships, skills, and community we need. Pray, ask, and trust Him to work through others. 4. Don't despise small beginnings. American Heritage Girls didn't begin as a national movement. It began around a kitchen table with a handful of girls. Faithfulness in the small things is often how God prepares us for greater influence. 5. Spend more time in the Light than you do in the darkness. The world gives us endless opportunities to focus on what's broken. Patti reminds us that faithful leaders intentionally spend more time in prayer, Scripture, worship, and God's creation than they do consuming fear, outrage, and endless headlines. Resources & Links Learn more about American Heritage Girls: https://americanheritagegirls.org ️ Listen to the Raising Godly Girls Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3xYW29TBukmcyq6dSpM5Wv?si=1cc90040ae084f78 Get Patti's book: Why Curse the Darkness When You Can Light a Candle? https://a.co/d/00tjDFOL Connect with Patti: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patti-garibay-b292b94/






