
Episode #10
Parenting Beyond Trauma: Why Your Nervous System Goes Haywire at Your Kid's Birthday Party
This episode we're sitting down with Dr. Dana Harron, a Washington, DC-area psychologist, founder of Monarch Wellness and Psychotherapy, and author of Loving Someone with an Eating Disorder . Her second book, Parenting Beyond Trauma , comes out in April 2027. Dr Harron shares how a feminist, relational approach to eating disorder treatment shaped her work, and why she believes in supporting the people around someone who is struggling, whether that's a partner, a sibling, or a parent. The conversation then turns to parenting with a trauma history: how the nervous system puts safety first, why a small moment can suddenly feel like a hill to die on, and how our own childhoods can show up when our kids reach the age that was hard for us (cue Johanna's birthday party anxiety). Along the way we talk about the pressure of Instagram-perfect motherhood, why taking care of yourself is taking care of your kids, and how repair after a mistake can be a gift to a child. Dr Harron closes with what she's unlearning as she enters the second half of life. If you're trying to keep what was good from your childhood and leave the rest behind, this one is for you. To connect with Dr Dana Harron: https://www.monarchwellness.com/dana-harron-psyd Loving Someone with An Eating Disorder: To Purchase Parenting Beyond Trauma : To Purchase

