
Episode #65
Caring Takes Real Courage — feat. Marcel Schwantes (EP. 65)
Marcel Schwantes learned what bad leadership costs the hard way: a command-and-control workplace left him collapsed on his bathroom floor, paralyzed from the waist down, and facing six months of recovery. The servant leader he worked for next became the model for everything that followed, from his coaching practice to his Inc. column and his podcast. Mark Abbott and Marcel dig into what Mark calls high care versus high performance, and Marcel makes the case that one actually produces the other when caring leaders set clear expectations and hold people accountable. They get into the country club leader who can't deliver results, why caring leaders need the courage to have hard conversations early, and the CEO who answered damning exit interview data by demanding the names of everyone who left. Mark shares why he prefers psychological courage to psychological safety, and how Ninety's "succeed or escalate" principle keeps problems from sinking the ship. They close on what love actually means at work: patience, kindness, humility, advocacy, and trustworthiness, backed by action that produces results. Key topics Surviving a toxic workplace, and the servant leader who changed Marcel's career High care versus high performance, and why one leads to the other Relationships and results: why the smallest word on Marcel's slide matters most Leadership courage and the hard conversations most managers avoid Why narcissists rise to the top, and how a high care, high performance culture stops them Love in action: patience, kindness, humility, advocacy, and trustworthiness About Marcel Schwantes Marcel Schwantes is a leadership coach, speaker, and writer who spent 20 to 25 years in corporate HR, organizational development, and talent management before starting his own practice in 2013. Inc. Magazine brought him on as a columnist, and in 2018 he launched his podcast, originally called Love in Action and now The Marcel Podcast, which has passed 300 episodes with guests including Ken Blanchard, Amy Edmondson, and Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic. His work, including his book Humane Leadership, is built on a human-centered model of servant leadership and five principles: patience, kindness, humility, advocacy, and trustworthiness. Follow Marcel on LinkedIn Mentioned in this episode "Humane Leadership: Lead with Radical Love, Be a Kick-Ass Boss" by Marcel Schwantes "Why Do So Many Incompetent Men Become Leaders? (And How to Fix It)" by Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic "Good to Great" by Jim Collins "Built to Last" by Jim Collins and Jerry I. Porras "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell W. Edwards Deming's work on management and quality, and Amy Edmondson's research on psychological safety Mark on The Marcel Podcast: How Great Leaders Build Cultures That Scale Connect Mark Abbott on LinkedIn Cole Abbott on LinkedIn Ninety's EOS Newsletter Subscribe for more founder-first conversations every other week. → Subscribe to Mark’s Founder’s Framework Newsletter → Subscribe to Ninety’s EOS Newsletter → Try Ninety free for 30 days !


