Handful of Leaves | Mindfulness & Buddhism in Everyday Life

Delivering practical wisdom for a happier life. A Buddhist podcast that explores how to navigate the daily complexities of life relating to topics such as ambition, personal finance, relationships, etc. www.handfulofleaves.life#Podcast #Buddhism #Mindfulness

Handful of Leaves | Mindfulness & Buddhism in Everyday Life is a religion podcast hosted by Handful Of Leaves, with 74 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

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  Ep 71: From Princeton Graduate & Singapore Civil Servant to Buddhist Nun ft Venerable Damcho

  Jul 28, 202628 min

  What happens when you follow the Singapore path, tick the right boxes, and still feel like something is missing? In this episode, Cheryl speaks with Venerable Damcho on her unexpected path into Buddhism, from heartbreak and anxiety in university, to meditation, retreats, ordination, and discovering a kind of happiness that did not depend on external success. Key takeaways: I just felt like I had been cheated A raw reflection on chasing the life we are told will make us happy, only to ask: and then what? My happiness is not dependent on all these external things A short-term novitiate showed her that peace could arise even while waking early, wearing simple robes, and cleaning toilets. It’s very difficult to identify the afflictions because I think they are true A practical reminder that anger, self-pity, and fear often feel logical until we learn to see them clearly. Transcript: https://bit.ly/hol-ep-71 ⏱Timestamps: (00:00) Why the usual Singapore success path still felt empty (01:20) Growing up with zero interest in religion (03:21) How heartbreak and anxiety led her to meditation (04:29) Her first strange encounter with chanting and the Heart Sutra (05:21) The breathing practice that changed her response to fear (07:44) How the thought of monastic life slowly began (08:50) The friend who brought her into Bright Hill Temple (11:43) The hidden wish to become a nun (13:14) The Vesak aspiration that surprised even her (17:22) Why ordination is not a form you submit overnight (18:39) The short-term novitiate that changed everything (21:48) Sleeping on mats, cleaning toilets, and feeling unexpectedly happy (22:42) Why external success felt so unfulfilling (25:03) How a Theravada retreat opened the door to Tibetan practice (29:25) Her first visit to Sravasti Abbey was not what she expected (35:55) The breakup, the US ticket, and a decision that shocked her boyfriend (39:30) Becoming a novice and later receiving full ordination in Taiwan (42:10) Lojong: turning difficult situations into practice Resources: Sravasti Abbey Website: https://sravastiabbey.org/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen, Nai Kai Lee, Amelia Toh, Hannah Law, Shin Hui Chong, Dennis Lee, Kayliam, Darren Sponsor us : https://handfulofleaves.life/support/ Editor : Azraf Mahir ✍️ Transcribers : Cheryl Cheah, Tan Si Jing, Ng Yah Tyng Visuals & Sound : Anton Thorne, Tan Pei Shan, Ang You Shan Get Connected Telegram https://bit.ly/hol-telegram Instagram https://bit.ly/hol-instagram-podcast Facebook https://bit.ly/hol-facebook-podcast Spotify https://bit.ly/spotifyholep71 Get connected here: Telegram Instagram YouTube Facebook

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  Ep 70: Harvard Monk’s Secret: How to Find Peace When Life Falls Apart? Explains Ft. Haenim Sunim, Zen Monk & Bestselling Author

  Jun 23, 202614 min

  What if the peace you've been searching for was never outside of you? In this profound conversation, internationally renowned Zen monk and bestselling author Haemin Sunim shares timeless wisdom on navigating heartbreak, uncertainty, difficult relationships, and life's inevitable challenges. Drawing from Buddhist teachings and personal experience, he reveals how inner peace emerges not from controlling the world around us, but from trusting the strength already within us. Whether you're facing loss, struggling with difficult people, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life, this episode offers practical insights to help you find calm, resilience, and freedom amidst the chaos. #HaeminSunim #InnerPeace #SelfWorth #EmotionalHealing #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfCompassion #SpiritualGrowth ✨ Key Takeaways: 💎 You Already Have What You're Looking For Love, worthiness, security, and peace are not things we earn from the outside world. They already exist within us. External circumstances may amplify these qualities, but they never create them. 🌱 Every Challenge Reveals Your Inner Strength Life will inevitably bring heartbreak, failure, and uncertainty. Yet every difficulty you've faced has shown one important truth: you've survived before, and you can trust yourself to navigate what comes next. 🕊️ Compassion and Boundaries Can Coexist Understanding that hurt people often hurt others can help us respond with compassion. But true peace also requires healthy boundaries, protecting your well-being while allowing others to take responsibility for their own healing. About the Speaker: 👤 Haemin Sunim is a globally respected Zen meditation teacher and international bestselling author known for his deeply practical approach to modern spirituality. His books have sold over six million copies worldwide and have been translated into more than thirty-eight languages. Ordained in the Korean Zen tradition, Haemin Sunim received monastic training in South Korea before pursuing academic study in religion at the University of California, Berkeley, Harvard University, and Princeton University, where he earned his doctorate. Today, he continues to teach and inspire audiences around the world through international talks, retreats, and his widely read writings. 📄 Transcript: https://bit.ly/hol-ep-69v ⏱Timestamps: (00:00) Stop Looking Outside Yourself for Happiness (01:42) The Breakup Myth: Can Someone Take Your Love Away? (03:18) Why You're Stronger Than You Think (05:40) How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply (07:46) The Secret Behind Negative People (09:13) Don't Take It Personally (09:46) Why Boundaries Are an Act of Compassion (11:30) The Backlash You'll Face When You Finally Say No (12:04) The Hidden Reason People Try to Control Others (13:12) The Path to Inner Freedom and Peace (13:41) Why Healing Yourself Changes Your Entire Life (14:00) Final Wisdom: The One Thing Haemin Wants You to Remember Resources: Haenim Sunim Website: https://www.haeminsunim.com/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen, Nai Kai Lee, Amelia Toh, Hannah Law, Shin Hui Chong, Dennis Lee, Kayliam, Darren 🙏 Sponsor us : ⁠ https://handfulofleaves.life/support/⁠ 🎬 Editor :Karen Law ✍️ Transcribers : Cheryl Cheah, Tan Si Jing, Ng Yah Tyng🎨 Visuals & Sound : Anton Thorne, Tan Pei Shan, Ang You Shan Get connected here: ⁠⁠Telegram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook

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  Ep 69: Why You Feel Unworthy? A Harvard Monk Explains Ft. Haemin Sunim, Zen Monk & Bestselling Author

  Apr 28, 202629 min

  Why do we feel like we’re never enough even when everything seems “fine” on the outside? In this heartfelt conversation, Haemin Sunim unpacks the hidden roots of unworthiness, revealing how our deepest insecurities are often shaped by childhood survival instincts and our need to belong. Through gentle wisdom and practical insights, he shows us how to reconnect with our inner child, shift our attention away from negativity, and rediscover a sense of peace and intrinsic worth that has always been within us. ✨ Key Takeaways: 🧠 Why your brain is wired to seek validation Your brain is built to scan for threats. So approval feels like safety, making you rely on external validation. 👶 How childhood survival shapes adult anxiety As a child, you adapted to be liked and accepted to feel safe and cared for. This shows up in adulthood as anxiety, people pleasing, and fear of rejection. 🌱 The hidden link between belonging and self-worth When acceptance is at risk, it’s easy to believe “I’m not enough.” This is why self-worth often becomes dependent on feeling included and liked. ✨ A simple way to retrain your attention away from negativity Your mind naturally focuses on what’s wrong, overlooking what’s good. Where you place your attention shapes how you experience your life. #SelfWorth #InnerHealing #Neuroplasticity #InnerChild #SelfLove #HealingJourney #BuddhistWisdom #PersonalGrowth #HaeminSunim About the Speaker: 👤 Haemin Sunim is a globally respected Zen meditation teacher and international bestselling author known for his deeply practical approach to modern spirituality. His books have sold over six million copies worldwide and have been translated into more than thirty-eight languages. Ordained in the Korean Zen tradition, Haemin Sunim received monastic training in South Korea before pursuing academic study in religion at the University of California, Berkeley, Harvard University, and Princeton University, where he earned his doctorate. Today, he continues to teach and inspire audiences around the world through international talks, retreats, and his widely read writings. 📄 Transcript: https://bit.ly/hol-ep-69v ⏱Timestamps: (00:22) Meet Haemin Sunim: From Harvard to Monkhood (01:02) The Hidden Loneliness of Your Inner Child (02:27) Why We Seek Approval (Childhood Survival Instincts) (04:20) The Fear of Rejection = A “Death Sentence”? (05:44) People Pleasing & Outsourcing Your Self-Worth (07:04) You Already Have the Love You’re Seeking (07:29) What People Secretly Hide Behind Their Smiles (08:47) Rewiring Your Mind: Escaping Negative Thinking (10:21) A Simple Night Routine to Train Gratitude (12:25) How to Reset When You’re Stressed (10 sec → 20 min methods) (15:19) Dopamine vs Serotonin: Why You Feel Empty After Scrolling (18:00) Addiction Isn’t the Problem—What Are You Avoiding? (19:30) Love = Attention (A Surprising Redefinition) (20:11) Relationships as Mirrors: What They Reveal About You (22:00) Healing Patterns: Why You Keep Getting Hurt (24:14) Reparenting Yourself: Giving What You Never Received (24:30) Cheryl’s Reflection: Letting Go of Validation (26:11) Cheryl’s Reflection: Love Was Never “Taken” From You Resources: Haenim Sunim Website: https://www.haeminsunim.com/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen, Nai Kai Lee, Amelia Toh, Hannah Law, Shin Hui Chong, Dennis Lee, Kayliam, Darren 🙏 Sponsor us : https://handfulofleaves.life/support/ 🎬 Editor :Karen Law ✍️ Transcribers : Cheryl Cheah, Tan Si Jing, Ng Yah Tyng🎨 Visuals & Sound : Anton Thorne, Tan Pei Shan, Ang You Shan Get connected here: ⁠Telegram⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ ⁠Facebook

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  Ep 68: Do We Really Need Another Monastery? Ft. Ajahn Nisabho from Clear Mountain

  Mar 24, 202631 min

  In this episode, Cheryl sits down with Ajahn Nisabho to explore a powerful question many practitioners quietly wrestle with: with so many Buddhist paths available, why commit deeply to one? Drawing from his journey in the Thai Forest Tradition, Ajahn Nisabho shares how commitment is less about limitation and more about depth and sincerity. Through his experience training as a monk and helping to build a monastery in the West, he reflects on how practice, service, and community are not competing priorities, but interconnected expressions of the same path. This conversation offers a grounded look at how the Dhamma can remain authentic while meeting the needs of a modern, diverse world, showing that with care and clarity, depth and accessibility can coexist without losing the essence of the teachings. ✨ Key Takeaways: 🧘‍♂️ I don’t think the Dhamma makes us choose. True Dhamma doesn’t force a choice between inner practice and outer service. When held wisely, both can deepen each other. A powerful reminder that practice and service, seclusion and community, can coexist when held with wisdom. 🤝 This hunger for… spiritual friendship and community is very deep in people’s hearts. In a disconnected world, kalyanamitta is not optional, it is essential to the path, especially in a fragmented, modern world. 🌱 Give where you feel inspired. Whether through time, energy, or intention, true generosity (dāna) begins with genuine inspiration not from pressure or obligation. #Dana #Generosity #HeartLedLife #Balance #DhammaInLife #Community #Kalyanamitta #SpiritualGrowth About the Speaker: 👤 Ajahn Nisabho is a Buddhist monk in the Thai Forest Tradition and a founding teacher of Clear Mountain Monastery. After completing college in 2012, he left his native Washington to ordain in Thailand, seeking a life dedicated to meditation and the pursuit of liberation. He received full ordination the following year under Ajahn Anan, a senior disciple of the renowned meditation master Ajahn Chah. Over the next several years, Ajahn Nisabho trained in forest monasteries across the world under respected teachers including Ajahn Pasanno and Ajahn Jayasaro. In 2021, he returned to the United States and began laying the foundation for Clear Mountain Monastery in Seattle, with the aim of creating a place where the timeless teachings of the Buddha can take root and flourish for contemporary practitioners. 📄 Transcript: https://bit.ly/hol-ep-68 ⏱Timestamps: (00:00) Why commit to one Buddhist path? (00:25) Podcast intro & guest introduction (00:56) Ajahn Nisabho’s journey into monastic life (02:52) Vision of Clear Mountain monastery (03:47) Balancing practice, service & responsibility (05:21) The joy of giving (Dāna) & community role (07:55) Building a community-first monastery (10:33) The modern need for spiritual community (13:36) How to support the monastery meaningfully (18:35) Balancing accessibility vs deep teachings (22:11) Insights from science, interviews & tradition (25:25) Teaching without compromise & closing reflection Resources: Clear Mountain Project: https://www.friendsofclearmountain.org/ Clear Mountain Youtube : @ClearMountainMonastery Clear Mountain Website: https://www.clearmountainmonastery.org/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen, Nai Kai Lee, Amelia Toh, Hannah Law, Shin Hui Chong, Dennis Lee, Kayliam, Darren 🙏 Sponsor us : https://handfulofleaves.life/support/ 🎬 Editor : Dexel Loo ✍️ Transcribers : Cheryl Cheah, Tan Si Jing, Ng Yah Tyng 🎨 Visuals & Sound : Anton Thorne, Tan Pei Shan, Ang You Shan Get connected here: Telegram Instagram YouTube Facebook

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  Ep 67: Why Buddhist Couples Stay Happier – The Surprising Truth

  Feb 12, 202632 min

  Many couples don’t fall apart because of a lack of love — they drift because they stop listening, growing, and meeting each other where they are. In this episode, Cheryl sits down with Angela, founder of Almost Peaceful , to explore why some relationships deepen over time while others quietly disconnect. Drawing from lived experience, Buddhist principles, and years of working with couples, Angela shares how mindfulness, curiosity, and honest communication can transform conflict into connection — and why lasting love is less about grand gestures and more about daily intention. ✨ Key Takeaways: 💬 Listening Over Fixing — Most relationship tension comes from rushing to solve problems instead of first offering presence, empathy, and a listening ear. 🌱 Love Is a Verb — Healthy relationships are built through consistent effort, curiosity, and small daily actions — not assumptions or mind-reading. 🧘 Non-Attachment Strengthens Love — Honouring impermanence, personal space, and emotional awareness helps couples grow together without clinging or control. #MindfulRelationships #BuddhistWisdom #ConsciousLove #EmotionalConnection #HandfulOfLeaves About the Speaker: Most relationship experts either focus on therapy (fixing what's broken) or surface-level advice (communication tips that don't stick). Angela bridges the gap with relationship mastery - the systematic approach to building extraordinary partnerships. Her unique combination: Academic rigor from her Master's in Social Development Policy (Distinction) from University College London Real-world experience from 6 years facilitating high-stakes government dialogues as a Singapore Scholar Professional training in Gottman Method, Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, and Co-Active Fundamentals Coaching Personal understanding of what makes marriages thrive 📄 Transcript: https://bit.ly/hol-ep-67 ⏱Timestamps: (00:00) Why many couples drift apart despite loving each other (01:02) From problem-solving to deep listening in relationships (03:14) The turning point before marriage and choosing commitment (05:00) What it really takes to know someone is “the one” (07:10) Why busy lives quietly erode relationships (08:20) Love as a daily practice, not a feeling (11:04) Monthly relationship check-ins that rebuild connection (13:21) Conflict patterns: avoidance and mind-reading (15:06) Communicating needs without blame or defensiveness (17:05) Hyper-independence and learning interdependence (19:00) Creating space without disconnecting from your partner (21:44) Impermanence, compassion, and choosing wisely at crossroads (27:27) One small daily habit to feel more connected Resources: Zen-inspired marriage preparation workshop - https://almostpeaceful.sg/pages/marriage-success Get in touch with Angela via - https://www.instagram.com/almostpeaceful.sg/ Special thanks to our sponsors: Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen, Nai Kai Lee, Amelia Toh, Hannah Law, Shin Hui Chong, Dennis Lee, Kayliam, Darren 🙏 Sponsor us : https://handfulofleaves.life/support/ 🎬 Editor : Havalooka Studios ✍️ Transcribers : Cheryl Cheah, Tan Si Jing, Bernice Bay 🎨 Visuals & Sound : Anton Thorne, Tan Pei Shan, Ang You Shan Get connected here: Telegram Instagram YouTube Facebook

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