
Episode #3
Ep 39: How Your Emotional Intelligence is Impacting Your Leadership with Fay Niewiadomski
Business Emotional Intelligence: The 8 Soft Skills That Make or Break Leadership and How Women Get Trapped to The Sticky Floor FREE RESOURCE: What habits are quietly working against your leadership? Take the Leadership Blind Spot Audit https://www.hellovelocity.co/blindspot Host Brittany Canaski talks with Fay Niewiadomski about business emotional intelligence - work-relevant emotional capabilities that drive performance and relationships. Fay explains eight key factors: decisiveness, motivation, influence,adaptability, conscientiousness, empathy, stress resilience, andself-awareness. They discuss how differences in these skills can create tension and not feeling safe unless teams understand and bridge behavioral drivers. Key takeaways: While personality is fixed, behavior is a choice. With greater self-awareness, we can choose to respond intentionally instead of react automatically. Women often get stuck in a burnout “triangle” of high empathy, high conscientiousness, and low adaptability that shows up as people-pleasing, rule-following, and difficulty saying no. Fay advises building influence, not waiting for permission, and consulting leaders with options rather than asking what to do. Connect with Fay: Book: https://tinyurl.com/ytnr7tpb LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fayniewiadomski/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fayniewiadomski/ Blog: https://www.ictn.com/blog/ ⏱ What we covered: 00:00 Business EQ Intro 01:34 Defining Business EQ 04:10 Emotions Drive Performance 10:46 Research and Tools Used 11:41 Decisiveness 17:34 Motivation 19:04 Influence 20:18 Adaptability 20:43 Stress Resilience 21:34 Conscientiousness 22:16 Empathy 24:37 Applying Business EQ in Real Time 29:42 Women’s Burnout Triangle 38:37 Influence and Decisiveness Tips 43:57 Wrap Up and Resources ✉️ Leadership Insights: Join the Hello Velocity newsletter for actionable tips twice a month to grow your leadership skills without the burnout: https://www.hellovelocity.co/newsletter Hello Velocity is a leadership coaching podcast to help high-achieving corporate women level up without burning out. Connect with the host, Brittany Canaski: Instagram - @HelloVelocityCo LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brittany-canaski/ Website - https://www.hellovelocity.co/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@hellovelocityco

