
Hidden Gifts of Loss
Season 2 Episode 10: Simon Gardiner on How Death Became the Gateway to Heaven
On the Hidden Gifts of Loss podcast, host Julie speaks with UK end-of-life counselor and companion Simon Gardiner about the death of his beloved partner Panda from lymphoma in 1991 and their continued communion, which he describes as a twin-flame, eternal love journey that transformed “hell” into a “gateway to heaven.” Simon recounts a hypnotherapy session shortly after Panda's passing in which he experienced her presence and the spirit world, and he explains how their ongoing relationship inspired his work supporting dying people and their families with love, compassion, acceptance, and emotional release, tailored to each person's beliefs. He shares a case where guidance helped a comatose man peacefully die, discusses how unresolved emotions can persist after death, and describes spirit-world roles for Panda and their children, plus themes of “divine madness,” alchemy of grief into love, asking for help, and “bringing heaven to earth.” 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:06 Continuing Bonds After Death 02:09 Panda's Illness and Passing 05:05 Hypnotherapy Spirit Encounter 07:58 Twin Flames and Shared Mission 10:14 End of Life Companion Work 13:13 Acceptance and Sacred Dying 15:12 Adapting Language for Clients 17:56 Guiding Release at Life's End 21:14 Coma Patient Leap of Faith 26:22 Trauma Healing Through Breath 27:22 Breathwork Healing Circle 28:24 Spirit Children and Inner Child 30:09 Embracing Divine Madness 32:00 Heart Kiln Alchemy 33:50 Choosing the Soul Lesson 37:07 Lower Astral and Asking Help 39:57 Grief as Love and Connection 41:30 Healing Together After Death 45:15 Fear of Death and Divine Source 46:35 Final Blessings and Soul Signs


