
Episode #62
Why People-Pleasing Is Burning You Out: The Invisible Work of Managing Everyone Else
What if you’re not burned out from everything you have to do — but from everything you’re trying to manage that was never yours in the first place? For overachievers and chronic people-pleasers, there’s the work you actually do… and then there’s the invisible work of making sure nobody is disappointed, angry, uncomfortable, or misunderstanding you. In this episode of Hustle Rebels, Renae digs into the connection between people-pleasing, burnout, nervous system safety, hyper-independence, and the exhausting need to manage how other people experience you. You’ll learn the difference between caring about someone’s feelings and carrying responsibility for them, why someone else’s disappointment can feel threatening, and one question to catch yourself when you start explaining, fixing, apologizing, or abandoning what you need just to keep someone else comfortable. Plus, a quick preview of next week’s Toolbox Tuesday conversation with Roberta Ravella of The Joy Experiment. The first week of Burn the Blueprint: Identity Reset is free — Get Week 1 of Burn the Blueprint, free: [ https://wayward-wellness-coaching.kit.com/burn-the-blueprint-week-one ] Ready to go DEEPER? Burn the Blueprint 4-week Course → [https://burn-the-blueprint.my.canva.site] Join the Weekly Recharge newsletter, out every Wednesday: [ https://wayward-wellness-coaching.kit.com ] Book a Brainspotting Session: [ https://calendly.com/waywardwellnesscoaching/packages/eb0c0772-56b6-47a0-9510-cb0187ed0dec ] Book a call with me - [ https://calendly.com/waywardwellnesscoaching/connectwithrenae ] Support the show Find more info on how to work with Renae - [ Wayward Wellness Coaching ] CONNECT ON SOCIALS: LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/waywardwellnesscoaching/ Website → https://www.waywardwellnesscoaching.org Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/wayward_wellness_coaching/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/p/Wayward-Wellness-Coaching-61566792351111/

