
Episode #25
Paul Young on Grieving Well, Trusting Slowly, and the Photo Album We Keep
Paul Young wrote The Shack as a Christmas gift for his six kids. He photocopied 15 copies at Office Depot. It went on to sell 25+ million. But the story behind the story is harder than the fairy tale suggests: a missionary kid raised by an abusive father, sexual abuse starting at age five, and a three-month affair that nearly ended his marriage. What followed was an 11-year rebuild — the ground The Shack was written from. In this conversation, Paul opens up about: – The real origin of The Shack (and how it accidentally became a global phenomenon) – Why forgiveness doesn't require trust — and why that distinction matters – His 9+ year friendship with men on death row, and what "proximity changes everything" really means – Making peace with his father at 80, and the two photo albums we all keep inside – Living in the present moment as the only real world – Return to the Shack, releasing October 6 Paul's honesty about grief, healing, and what it means to be human is worth sitting with. Follow the show and let us know what landed. Timestamps 01:06 Meeting Paul Young 01:49 The affair that changed everything 04:37 Writing The Shack as a Christmas gift 09:02 From 15 copies to a phenomenon 16:30 Barnes & Noble comes knocking 20:29 Why forgiveness became his message 23:30 Releasing his father from expectations 28:48 Friendship with men on death row 36:47 "Proximity changes everything" 41:23 Being present as the only real world 47:20 What awestruck by Jesus looks like 55:15 Grief, healing, and not building identity on pain See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

