Episode #16
I Asked a Butt Surgeon Every Question You're Too Embarrassed to Ask - Pt. 2 (ft. Dr. Evan Goldstein)
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in back bed with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical, creator of Future Method, and author of Butt Seriously . They discuss anal health, pleasure, preparation, and all the questions people are often too embarrassed to ask. Topics discussed in this episode: Anal pleasure and breaking down taboos and myths Exploring anal stimulation for the first time The P-spot/prostate and prostate orgasms The A-spot and anal pleasure for women Topping vs. bottoming Why tops should understand anal anatomy Anal foreplay and gradual penetration The three sphincter muscles Breathing, relaxation and communication Pain, bleeding and discomfort during anal sex Lube and why anal sex differs from vaginal sex Penis size, thickness and anatomy Mushroom-shaped penises and preparation Bad first anal experiences Self-exploration and masturbation Pressure vs. in-and-out stimulation Riding and controlling penetration Dilators and gradual anal training Anatomy vs. psychological/neurological factors Bleeding, tightness and when to seek medical care Poop during anal sex Shame and anxiety around cleanliness Douching and over-douching Gut health, fiber and diet Prebiotics and probiotics Food and how diet can affect anal sex Condoms and anal sex PrEP and DoxyPEP The “toy test” after douching Hemorrhoids and what they actually are Fissures and skin tags Pegging and strap-on play Prostate massage and prostate milking Edging and gooning Anal Botox and pelvic floor physical therapy Butt facials Butt acne, ingrown hairs and hair removal Wet wipes and anal irritation Bidets and portable bidets Toilet paper vs. water-based cleaning Evan's work with Bespoke Surgical and Future Method Follow Dr. G:Instagram: @drevangoldstein | @bespokesurgical | @thefuturemethod Website and more: Bespoke Surgical Follow Alexa Andre:Instagram: @sexwithalexa Patreon: https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa Sponsor: Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Take their quiz to start your journey: https://beduc.at/pd2633-alexa
