
Episode #135
If Your Son Was Struggling With Porn, Would He Tell You? | Chris Rogers
If your son was struggling with pornography, would he tell you? Would he even know he could? Most of us grew up in homes where nobody talked about this — so we learned to hide it. Now our kids carry more temptation in their pocket than we ever had access to. In this episode, Michael Chestnut sits down with Chris Rogers, former teacher and founder of Rebooted Teen, who coaches teens and high-performing men through compulsive sexual behavior — and who's walked his own road of recovery. You'll learn: The two questions every kid is really asking: "Am I safe?" and "Can I trust you?" Why leading with shame guarantees they stay stuck ("If you lead with shame, they stay the same") The 3 categories of red flags to watch for — technological, social, and behavioral How to have the conversation even if you're still fighting this battle yourself Why it's not you vs. your child — it's you and your child vs. the problem FREE Parent Resource from Chris: https://rebootedteen.com ⏱️ Timestamps: 0:00 – Would your son tell you? 1:48 – Chris's story: from music teacher to recovery coach 5:50 – How does a dad even start this conversation? 7:53 – "If you lead with shame, they stay the same" 10:53 – Red flags: technological, social, and behavioral 14:20 – What boundaries are really for 19:03 – You don't have to be the one to fix it 20:33 – The home as the "rehearsal room" 24:12 – Social media and the most anxious generation ever 30:33 – "How can I talk to my son when I'm still struggling?" 32:35 – Mike's birds-and-bees story 35:15 – Being matter-of-fact + the Rebooted Teen Parent Program 40:08 – One action every dad should take today 42:27 – Curiosity is a superpower — you are your child's original influencer Subscribe for weekly conversations helping men live free and intentional. Find a Celebrate Recovery near you: https://www.celebraterecovery.com #TheIntentionalGuyPodcast #ChristianMen #PornAddictionRecovery


