
Episode #38
How to Have Better Sex & More Pleasure in Life | Juliet Allen | EP38
Why does great sex seem to get harder the longer we’re with someone — and what does it actually take to keep desire alive? In this episode of Into Deep, Geoff sits down with world-leading sexologist and Authentic Sex host Juliet Allen for an honest conversation about sex, intimacy, desire and how to experience more pleasure in life. Juliet believes our sex lives rarely exist in isolation. Stress, shame, unresolved emotions, communication, parenthood and the way we feel in our own bodies can all shape our capacity for intimacy and pleasure. Together, Geoff and Juliet explore why desire can fade in long-term relationships, how to talk to your partner when your sex life isn’t working, and why having better sex often starts well outside the bedroom. But this conversation goes deeper than sex. Juliet opens up about her own life, relationships and motherhood, including the premature birth of her youngest daughter and the six weeks that followed in NICU — one of the most challenging experiences of her life. They also dive into pornography, monogamy and non-monogamy, postpartum desire, raising children with a healthy relationship to sexuality, phone addiction and Juliet’s own struggle to slow down in a world that constantly encourages us to do more. Ultimately, this is a conversation about sex — but also about connection, intimacy, communication and creating a life in which we allow ourselves to experience more pleasure. In this episode: ❤️ Why desire changes in long-term relationships How to experience more pleasure inside and outside the bedroom ️ How to talk to your partner when your sex life isn’t working How stress, shame and unresolved emotions can affect desire Sex, intimacy and libido after having children Pornography and its impact on young people Monogamy, non-monogamy and modern relationships Why slowing down could help you experience more pleasure Juliet’s journey through motherhood and six weeks in NICU Follow Into Deep: @intodeep_pod Follow Juliet: @juliet_allen Follow Geoff: @geoff_intodeep

