
Episode #66
66 How to Manage Up (So your boss will listen to you!)
Send us Fan Mail How do you manage up so your boss listens to your ideas, understands your concerns, and values your judgment? In this episode of the Joyfully Unstoppable podcast, executive coach Becky Hamm shares four practical strategies for leading up with clarity and influence. You’ll learn how to connect your recommendations to your boss’s priorities, communicate your thinking concisely, and make it easier for senior leaders to act on the information you provide. Becky also explains how to disagree with your boss respectfully when you see risks or consequences they may have overlooked. Your success does not depend on changing your boss’s mind. It comes from making your professional judgment, evidence, and recommendations clear. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to understand the priorities shaping your boss’s decisions Why every problem you raise should include a recommendation A four-sentence framework for presenting an issue clearly How to reduce the cognitive load required to evaluate your idea How to communicate risks and trade-offs when you disagree What successful leadership up actually looks like Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Joyfully Unstoppable 00:33 Why senior leaders need to know how to manage up 03:18 Practice 1: Understand your boss’s priorities 06:52 Practice 2: Bring a recommendation 10:43 Practice 3: Make your thinking easy to follow 11:49 The four-sentence framework for communicating with your boss 14:22 How to disagree with your boss effectively 16:16 A four-part framework for respectful disagreement 17:46 An example of communicating risks and trade-offs 19:47 What success looks like when you manage up 20:45 How to become someone your boss wants to hear from 22:21 Closing and invitation to share If this episode helped you think differently about how to manage up, share it with another woman in leadership. Subscribe to Joyfully Unstoppable for practical strategies that will help you lead joyfully, sustainably, and authentically. Joyfully Unstoppable: helping women succeed without the stress. Subscribe so you never miss an episode! ✨ Let’s stay connected Want more support as you lead with clarity, confidence, and joy? Here’s how we can keep growing together: Take the Executive Leader's Scorecard to find your leadership stage Join the Newsletter and receive weekly leadership tips straight to your inbox! Join the Women's Executive Leadership Lab Meet Becky – Get to know the heart behind the mic Coaching for Women Leaders – Ready for personalized support? Explore 1:1 coaching Free Leadership Resources – Practical tools to help you lead (and live) well Explore Women Lead Well – Learn more about Women Lead Well and everything we offer

