Judgment, Not Judgmental | Parenting Tools + Conversations That Support Moms in Raising Their Family... Their Way

Shamey parenting energy is not welcome here. Judgment, Not Judgmental is the podcast for moms who know what they're doing and still — very much — lose it.Not solely venting, and not solely expert advice. More like if those two had a baby? It’s two parents choosing curiosity over criticism, celebrating what’s working, laughing through what’s not, and giving you something small and usable you can actually try this week (because yes… we do know what we’re talking about).Hosted by Rachel — parenting strategist from the child welfare world with an MSW and girl mom of two — and Rosie — PA with a psych background and boy mom of two — it’s the show where two best friends talk about all the things happening in their homes, their heads, and their hearts… without pretending to have it all figured out.We believe in judgment — the kind you use to make decisions, set boundaries, and protect your peace. Moms need that. Kids need that. And we’re human — of course we have opinions.What we don’t

Judgment, Not Judgmental | Parenting Tools + Conversations That Support Moms in Raising Their Family... Their Way is a kids podcast hosted by Rachel Lefebvre & Rosie Whinnery, with 11 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Rachel Lefebvre & Rosie Whinnery hosts Judgment, Not Judgmental | Parenting Tools + Conversations That Support Moms in Raising Their Family... Their Way, a kids show with 11 episodes published.

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  "My Brain Is on Fire": Reading a Dysregulated Kid & Why Skills Beat Routines

  Sep 22, 20261h 3mS1

  This week Rachel and Rosie are both coming off brutal stretches: a dog's six-hour emergency surgery, bedtime meltdowns, and what do you do when your kid "I don't wanna talk anymore." We’d love to be tidy but just being honest… we did a lot of re-learning this week. your kid’s behavior while dysregulated can tell you a lot about next steps.   In this episode, we chat about: • Why trying to teach a lesson mid-tantrum is a waste of your time and energy, and what to do instead • The real difference between "dysregulated" and "unregulated" (we looked it up live, and it was actually an “aha”) • The gut-check question for when a fight feels unreasonably big for than the thing you're actually fighting about • Why taking off your referee hat and letting siblings hash it out themselves is THE skill to work on this week • How skills beat routines every time when your kid's context changes completely   ⭐ Resources Mentioned: • Dr. Siggie (Instagram) — the "no teaching mid-tantrum" framing Rosie references • I Love You Forever — the book Rachel won't keep in the house • Magic Tree House and A to Z Mysteries — our current bedtime chapter book favorites • Richard Scarry / Busytown books — the ones that got packed away • Dolly Parton's Imagination Library   ✨ Connect with Rachel & Rosie: • Listen: Judgment, Not Judgmental on Apple Podcasts • @Judgment_Not_Judgmental •  @RegulatingWithRachel   Loved this episode? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it helps more parents find the show!

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  You Didn't Fall In Love With A Dad: Loving Your Partner As A Person (Not Just A Co-Parent)

  Jul 4, 202659 minS1

  Rachel and Rosie talk about feuding with Jamie about baby cuddles until he check-mates her with argument using video game terminology, and how Aiden knows Rosie better than anyone as he supports her giving a stranger the Heimlich over a choked-on brat, and we love on the moms who understand that 8:30AM is the BEST playdate time. This is Rachel and Rosie's Father's Day dispatch on husbands — but really it's about loving your partner as a person, not just the parent they became after you had kids. In this episode, you can join the convo about: • Why "you didn't fall in love with a dad" is the reframe that keeps you from losing your partner inside the parenting role • What Rosie's husband does that she can't — the specific way he "disarms" a meltdown when she's at her wit's end • Using the "When-then" as the level 1 expectation-setting phrase that gets your kids to listen even at a year and a half old (and why most people skip the first half of it) • What to do when you and your partner are dysregulated at the same time — hint: it's not "wait until we're calm to talk" • Why gentleness isn't the opposite of strength — it's the thing that keeps strength from becoming a blind spot Rachel and Rosie recorded this the week of Father's Day, right after Rachel's home buyers tried to schedule a walkthrough at 8:30am on Father's Day (no). From we sincerely do our best to stay on topic: what it looks like when one partner becomes "the only one who can read the baby" (especially during breastfeeding), strong couple foundations and how Rachel calls Jamie out without turning it into a fight, and why writing down what you love about your partner — not as a co-parent, just as a person — is worth doing today, not just on Father's Day. ⭐ Resources Mentioned: • Thrive Institute infant CPR/first aid course • Five Love Languages assessment • "One Last Thing" — Judgment, Not Judgmental episode 7 ✨ Connect with Judgment, Not Judgmental — hosted by Rachel & Rosie: • Website: rachellefebvre.com • Instagram: @judgment_not_judgmental + @regulatingwithrachel • Rachel's Emotionally Efficient Parenting™ program to learn to do math with feelings (DM JNJ) 💛 Loved this episode? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or send this one to a friend who needs it.

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  “First of All... Don’t Tell Me What To Do”: Relationship Repair & Emotional Regulation

  Jun 2, 20261h 1mS1

  <p>Rachel and Rosie start with vocabulary words and somehow end up talking about ADHD, re-parenting, emotional regulation, and ChapStick. They discuss the question that immediately reduced tension with both a husband and a toddler, why parenting starts with exhaustion instead of expertise, and how a five-second pause can completely change a conversation.</p> <p> </p> <p>WHAT WE TALK ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE</p> <p>→ why "I need you to be ready" landed so badly</p> <p>→ the same relationship troubleshooting question working on both the husband and a toddler</p> <p>→ what you're actually afraid of losing in moments...

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  What to Say Instead of “What’s Wrong?”, Moving with Toddlers & The Tangents from Hiatus

  May 5, 202644 minS1

  <p>Rachel and Rosie come back from a hiatus with moving chaos, flooded basements, tornado warnings, and a moment that ends in a dog bed surrounded by two giant dogs wondering why everyone needs to touch you at the exact same time—plus about twenty tangents (including literal math) that somehow still end up looping back around?? 🔍 WHAT WE’RE TALKING ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE → packing up your entire house while still living in it with kids, animals, and zero personal space → a toddler melting down over sleeves… that turns out to be about wanting her sister → “I don’t like where you put...

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  “I Did the Hard Thing Because I’m a Parent”: One Last Thing vs. A 46-Minute Bath

  Mar 18, 202657 minS1

  <p>Rachel and Rosie record this episode for the third time at 9:36pm. They talk about kids who take choking hazards very seriously, getting stuck in the kitchen with three animals and a baby grabbing your pants, and the audacity of being interrupted mid-thought.</p> <p> </p> <p>🔗 LINKS & MENTIONS</p> <p>→ Rachel’s Instagram: @regulatingwithrachel </p> <p>→ January 9th post: “One Last Thing” concept </p> <p>→ Allegra Cohen – Micro Joy Algorithm TED Talk </p> <p>→ What To Do With Your Baby Every Day by Rachel Lefebvre</p> <p>    → Paperback on Amazon</p> <p>    → PDF + ASL posters</p> <p> </p> <p>🤍 CONNECT WITH US</p> <p>→ Instagram...

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