Last Date
Dating at 42 When You Still Want Kids
In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Mandee, who at 42 is navigating dating after divorce while still hoping to start a family. Mandee was married for more than six years. Early in that relationship, she and her husband both said they wanted three children—but after they married, those conversations never turned into plans. Eventually, Mandee realized that if having a family was still important to her, she needed to give herself the opportunity to find someone who genuinely wanted the same thing. Now she's dating again with a much clearer understanding of what she wants—and discovering that clarity can make dating both easier and harder. We discuss:- What it's like dating at 42 when you still want children - Why she's dating younger men for the first time - The non-negotiables that dramatically narrow her dating pool - Opening herself up to dating outside her race after previously dating only Asian men - Why she's become surprisingly attracted to the "nerdy guys" she once overlooked - Ghosting, dating apps, singles events, and sliding into someone's DMs This conversation is about starting over with more self-awareness, expanding what you're open to while becoming more selective about what actually matters, and staying optimistic when the life you want requires you to keep putting yourself out there. Follow this channel for future conversations about modern dating and relationships. Follow on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@lastdatepodcast Follow Danny on Instagram for clips and insights: https://www.instagram.com/lastdatepodcast https://www.instagram.com/cruxcompatible
