LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis , this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT is a comedy podcast hosted by LET'S TALK, with 24 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

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  Episode #15

  WHY MEN NEED THE HOLY SPIRIT FOR BATTLE

  Aug 12, 202629 minS2

  Carrying the Fire: Holy Spirit, Power, and Battle This episode of Let's Talk with Ben, Brad, and Coit centers on the Holy Spirit and why spiritual power matters for men who want to live ready for battle. They unpack the baptism in the Holy Spirit, the meaning of tongues, and why Jesus told his followers to wait for power before going out.Brad shares his own powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit after salvation, and Coit explains how the Spirit equips believers for witness, prayer, and endurance in everyday spiritual warfare. Key topics In this episode, Ben opens the series connection to being built for battle and explains why Holy Spirit power is essential, not optional. Coit defines the Holy Spirit as the third person of the Trinity and frames baptism in the Spirit as a separate work from salvation and water baptism. Brad shares his testimony of being radically saved in 1995, then later being filled with the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues. The hosts walk through Acts 1 and Acts 2, emphasizing Jesus' instruction to wait in Jerusalem for power before ministry. They discuss Joel 2 and the promise that God would pour out His Spirit on all flesh, including sons, daughters, young men, and old men. The episode breaks down different uses of tongues, including public tongues with interpretation and private prayer language. Coit highlights Romans 8 and the Spirit's role in intercession when believers do not know how to pray as they should. The conversation addresses cessation theology and why the hosts believe tongues and Spirit baptism are still for today. Brad and Coit both point to the personal, edifying effect of praying in the Spirit daily as preparation for spiritual battle. The episode closes with prayer for listeners to receive the fire, power, and presence of the Holy Spirit. Timestamps 00:00 - Opening the built for battle series and introducing Holy Spirit power 00:38 - Why the Holy Spirit is the central piece of spiritual readiness 01:37 - Who the Holy Spirit is as the third person of the Trinity 02:03 - The three baptisms and why the Spirit baptism matters 02:52 - Brad's salvation story and first radical encounter with God 04:45 - Being filled with the Holy Spirit without human prompting 06:02 - Jesus' command to wait for power in Jerusalem 06:58 - Joel 2, Acts, and the promise poured out on all flesh 08:09 - Why the baptism in the Holy Spirit is for believers today 09:09 - Public tongues, private tongues, and the question of who receives them 10:21 - Why public tongues need interpretation in church settings 11:08 - Two public uses and two private uses of tongues 12:16 - Romans 8 and intercession through the Spirit 12:46 - A story of intercession while a missionary was held at gunpoint 13:44 - Personal prayer in tongues as direct prayer to God 14:38 - How praying in the Spirit builds you up like a house 15:27 - False fire, deception, and protecting the real move of God 16:39 - Why cessation theology misses the ongoing work of the Spirit 17:44 - "Face to face" means Jesus' return, not the closing of gifts 19:15 - Eagerly desiring spiritual gifts with biblical balance 20:20 - Why it is short sighted to close yourself off from God's gifts 21:03 - Jesus baptized and led by the Spirit into the wilderness 21:59 - Brad's story of receiving the Spirit at age 11 and then witnessing 24:14 - Camp testimony and students physically sensing the Spirit 25:39 - Why the church cannot become Father, Son, and Holy Bible only 26:35 - The Holy Spirit as counselor and guide for witness 27:22 - Praying for listeners to receive the fire of the Holy Spirit

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  Episode #14

  THE ARMOR MEN LEAVE BEHIND EVERY MORNIG

  Aug 5, 202635 minS2

  Arm Yourself for Battle: Spiritual Warfare and Manhood Are you aware of the invisible war happening around us and within us? Most men go through their days fighting flesh and blood, unaware of the spiritual forces actively seeking to destroy our purpose, identity, and peace. In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit share personal stories, Biblical insights, and practical advice on how to recognize and gear up for the real fight — spiritual warfare. Episode Summary Join us as we explore the nature of spiritual warfare from a biblical perspective, focusing on how often we fight flesh and blood when the real enemy operates behind the scenes. We discuss the importance of seeing others through God's eyes rather than fleshly reactions, and how to equip ourselves daily with the armor of God. Learn practical steps to discern the unseen battles and to stand firm against the enemy’s schemes. Key Talking Points Personal stories of physical and spiritual fights, including Brad’s high school encounter and military experiences The biblical foundation of spiritual warfare in Ephesians 6:12 and the full armor of God Recognizing the enemy behind fleshly conflicts and how spiritual deception influences our perceptions The importance of guarding our hearts and minds from spiritual lies about our identity and purpose The concept of being "dangerous" spiritually — capable of standing firm and fighting back when needed Practical ways to put on the armor every day through prayer, the Word, and intentional spiritual discipline Scripture References Ephesians 6:12-17 — The full armor of God John 10:10 — The thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy Genesis 3:1 — The serpent's deception 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 — Spiritual warfare for the destruction of strongholds Practical Takeaways Pray daily for eyes to see and ears to hear what’s happening behind the scenes Study and meditate on Ephesians 6 to understand each piece of armor and its application Guard your mind and heart, especially regarding your identity, purpose, and the way you see others Recognize that every conflict is connected to a spiritual battle — choose love and compassion over fleshly reactions Be prepared spiritually by reading the Word and staying in prayer before stepping into the world each day Call To Action Start today by making it a habit to put on the full armor of God each morning. Pray, ask for discernment, and look for opportunities to stand firm in faith. Share this episode with a brother in Christ who needs encouragement to see the unseen battle and to fight with spiritual weapons. Timestamps 00:00 - Recognizing the unseen war around us 03:25 - The spiritual nature of the real enemy 07:55 - Biblical foundation of spiritual warfare in Ephesians 6 12:01 - Guarding our identity and purpose against spiritual deception 17:25 - The importance of spiritual readiness and danger in masculinity 22:42 - Seeing people through God's eyes rather than the enemy’s distortion 28:30 - Practical steps to put on the armor of God daily 34:32 - How to make spiritual armor a daily rhythm Resources & Links Linktr.ee/Letstalkthepod for more resources and connection

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  Episode #16

  THE KEY MEN OVERLOOK

  Jul 29, 202643 minS2

  Are men meant to fight alone, or is real strength found in community? In this episode of Let’s Talk , we dig into the biblical and cultural truths about brotherhood, vulnerability, and how isolation is our enemy's greatest weapon. Ben, Coit and Brad unpack the dangerous solo warrior myth we see in media and history — and reveal why true resilience requires surrounding yourself with brothers who will sharpen and protect you, especially in spiritual battles.They share powerful stories, from the surprising lion licks in Africa to the transformative power of authentic community in churches and CrossFit groups. You’ll discover how true community isn’t just about proximity — it’s built on shared passions, healthy conflict, and vulnerability. But avoiding that can leave men exposed to unseen dangers: substance abuse, emotional disconnection, and spiritual attack.Learn how the biblical call in 1 Peter 5.8 to stay alert in the face of an enemy prowling like a lion relates directly to your life today. Ben and Brad emphasize that real strength comes from being honest about your struggles, stepping into safe environments, and leading with vulnerability — not perfection. They challenge you to rethink the solo warrior image and reveal practical steps to find, build, and sustain real community rooted in faith, fun, and shared purpose.Whether you're feeling isolated at church, unsure how to start authentic friendships, or simply want to be a better brother to others, this conversation is your blueprint for fighting the fight with others by your side. Because in this battle called life, one thing’s certain: you don’t have to — and shouldn’t — fight alone. FAITH FOCUS: We explore how God's design for community mirrors the military’s unit strategy — fighting together, standing guard against spiritual lions, and encouraging one another in vulnerability as Christ’s body. If this episode challenged or inspired you, subscribe and share it with a brother. Tune in every Wednesday at 8AM for more honest conversations on becoming built for battle—together.

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  Episode #14

  THE HIDDEN WAR IN YOUR MIND

  Jul 22, 202645 minS2

  The Subtle But Prevalent Mental Pollutants for Christian Men In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit dive into the often overlooked mental pollutants that Christian men willingly invite into their minds daily—distractions disguised as entertainment and staying informed. They explore how these influences shape our thoughts and spiritual health, and provide practical insights to guard our minds. What you'll gain: Awareness of common mental pollutants in modern life Practical strategies to guard your mind and deepen your faith Reflection on how media consumption impacts your spiritual walk Key talking points: The influence of negative news and media on mental health Why staying constantly informed can be a form of mental pollution The impact of pornography, raunchy movies, and inappropriate entertainment choices biblical perspective on guarding the mind (Philippians 4:8, Romans 12:2) Actionable steps to reduce exposure and protect your spiritual wellbeing Standout Quotes: “The way we stay informed can become an entry point for mental pollution.” “Limiting negative media is a spiritual discipline.” “What we consume shapes our thoughts—make it count for faith.” Scripture References: Philippians 4:8 Romans 12:2 Practical Takeaways: Audit your daily media consumption and identify pollutants Replace negative content with Scripture and faith-building resources Set boundaries around entertainment and news intake Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepod Join us as we discuss how to recognize and eliminate the mental pollutants that hinder our spiritual growth, helping you live with greater clarity and faithfulness.

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  Episode #14

  THE HIDDEN WAR INSIDE YOUR HOME

  Jul 15, 202649 minS2

  Ready to lead your family with purpose and faith? In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the vital, battle-worthy role of men defending and building their households according to God's design. Discover how to be spiritually vigilant, intentionally build legacy, and reflect Christ's love within your family. Your greatest victory isn't just in work or wealth—it’s in cultivating a legacy rooted in love, faith, and steadfast leadership. In this episode: The biblical call to fight for our families with both spiritual and practical weapons Balancing the spiritual and physical protection of your home Recognizing the subtle signs that your family’s defenses are down The power of legacy and how our family’s story impacts future generations Practical steps for guarding your home against screen invasions and negative influences The importance of sacrificial love and spiritual vigilance in everyday leadership Standout Quotes: "The most important battles we face as men aren’t out in the world—they are within the four walls of our own homes." 🔥 "Fight for your family. It’s a legacy battle that leaves a kingdom impact." ✝️ "God didn't design us to be passive; He calls us to stand guard and lead with love." "Legacy isn’t about buildings or bank accounts—it’s about the people you raise in faith." "Peace on earth starts in the home when men stand up and fight the good fight." Scripture References: Nehemiah 4:14 – "Fight for your families" Ephesians 6:11-17 – Spiritual armor for protection Revelation 12:11 – Overcoming by the blood and testimony Practical Takeaways: Prioritize prayer and spiritual vigilance daily—guard your home in the Spirit Lead with sacrificial love, humility, and owning your mistakes Be intentional with your time: build valuable moments with your family Use technology wisely—set boundaries to protect your household from harmful influences Remember, your legacy is built in everyday faithfulness, not just big victories Next Steps: Reflect on the legacy you're leaving—what story are you writing with your actions? Commit to one practical change today: pray with your family, set tech boundaries, or own a mistake openly Join a local men's group or accountability partner to stay encouraged and held accountable in your leadership Resources: Let’s Talk the Podcast — Stay connected, get resources, and continue the conversation! Never forget, with Christ at the center, you’re equipped to lead your family to victory. Build intentionally, fight bravely, and leave a legacy that lasts for eternity.Blessings in His name—see you next time!

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