Mask Off for Masc with Vance

A podcast where Vance, an intimacy coach, talks openly and candidly with other queer men about the issues we face. These in depth and personal conversations are meant to shed a light on our own individual stories of struggle, vulnerability, and authenticity.

Mask Off for Masc with Vance is a health podcast hosted by Vance, with 23 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Vance hosts Mask Off for Masc with Vance, a health show with 23 episodes published.

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  Episode #22

  Enzo - Connection, Chaos, and Recovery

  May 18, 20261h 11mS0

  <p>Send us Fan Mail</p><p>In this episode, Vance chats with Enzo for a raw conversation about addiction, sobriety, sex work, self-worth, and the chaos of trying to rebuild your life while still being fully inside of it. Together, they talk about the highs and crashes of addiction, the ways intimacy and validation can become tangled together, and what it means to search for connection without pretending to have everything figured out.</p><p>Through very different experiences, Vance and Enzo find a lot of common ground in the emotional reality of recovery; the loneliness, the compulsive patterns...

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  Mask Off for Masc with Vance

  Enzo - Connection, Chaos, and Recovery

  May 18, 20261h 11m

  Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Enzo for a raw conversation about addiction, sobriety, sex work, self-worth, and the chaos of trying to rebuild your life while still being fully inside of it. Together, they talk about the highs and crashes of addiction, the ways intimacy and validation can become tangled together, and what it means to search for connection without pretending to have everything figured out. Through very different experiences, Vance and Enzo find a lot of common ground in the emotional reality of recovery; the loneliness, the compulsive patterns, the moments of clarity, and the fear of slipping backwards again. Rather than telling a clean redemption story, this episode stays inside the messier truth: that healing is rarely linear, and that sometimes honesty is the only thing keeping you grounded. This episode is an open conversation about recovery, identity, intimacy, and the complicated process of learning how to actually live with yourself. You can find Enzo on social media Instagram: @enzofalcone514 Like, Comment, and Subscribe Follow the podcast on Instagram @maskoffformasc

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  Episode #21

  Brian - Belonging, Grief, and Queer Ritual

  Mar 16, 20261h 8mS0

  <p>Send us Fan Mail</p><p>In this episode, Vance chats with Brian G. Murphy, author of Love Beyond Monogamy, for a conversation about ritual, community, and the ways we create meaning in our lives. Together, they explore how experiences like yoga, music, and gathering with friends can become modern spiritual practices — the places where we process loss, celebrate connection, and remember who we are. Brian also reflects on the deep cultural significance of places like Fire Island, and how queer spaces have long held grief, joy, friendship, and history all at once. This episode is a thoughtful conversation ab...

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  Episode #20

  Tom - Monogamous, Open, or Something Else?

  Dec 8, 20251h 7mS0

  <p>Send us Fan Mail</p><p>In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack loneliness, emotional safety, and the tension between freedom and connection, while diving into monogamy in the gay community — where it often feels split between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Rather than prescribing a “right” way, they explore how the real work is about self-awareness and choosing the relationship structure that actually fits who you are. This episode is a raw, grounded look at vulner...

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  Episode #19

  Gary - Compulsive Sex, Safety & the Search for Real Intimacy

  Nov 24, 20251h 9mS0

  <p>Send us Fan Mail</p><p>In this episode, Vance chats with Gary Albert — therapist, embodiment facilitator, and former classical musician — to explore the winding path that led him into supporting gay men in their relationships with pleasure, intimacy, and sexuality. We get into all of it: vulnerability, compulsive sexual patterns, limerence, emotional attachment, and why feeling our harder emotions is actually what creates real connection. Gary talks about the power of community, what it means for gay men to have truly safe spaces, and how relationships can become portals for self-discovery and healing. It’s a conversation for anyone...

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