
Episode #881
IF THEY WANTED TO THEY WOULD
"If they wanted to, they would." But is that actually true? Chris and Koi break down one of the most repeated pieces of modern dating advice and ask whether it helps people recognize low effort—or causes them to walk away from good relationships too quickly. Can someone really want you and still be inconsistent? Does being busy count as a valid excuse? And if you constantly have to question how someone feels, does the reason even matter? This episode gets into effort, mixed signals, communication, expectations, and the difference between wanting someone and actually choosing them.






