Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

"Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.

Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser is a health podcast hosted by Cam Fraser, with 371 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Cam Fraser hosts Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser, a health show with 371 episodes published.

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  #292 Find Freya a Fella: Dating Beyond the Apps (with Freya Graf)

  May 7, 202654 min

  On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam chats with Freya, a sex coach and educator and host of The Labia Lounge. They discuss her “Find Freya a Fella” hybrid PR/social experiment aimed at finding a partner while documenting modern dating frustrations like app fatigue, micro-rejections, loneliness, and Australia’s “nonchalance” about showing interest. Boycotting apps, she attends Melbourne singles events and practices meeting people “in the wild” by initiating conversations, being more approachable, and building community to counter scarcity mindset. They explore ethical “practice” in approaching strangers, attunement to cues, reducing pressure by reframing dates, and her idea for a “Mates and Dates” mixer. Freya shares mixed results—some dates but no long-term match—plus stigma women face for openly wanting commitment, and where to follow the campaign online. Key points: 07:08 Why Dating Feels Broken 11:43 Meeting People Offline 15:39 Mindset And Scarcity 18:09 Approaching With Respect 26:43 Results And Stigma 31:21 What Makes A Good Date 38:18 Effort, Nonchalance, and Clarity 51:23 Where To Follow Along

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  #291 OnlyFans, Adult Content, and AI (with Dr. Emily van der Nagel)

  Apr 30, 202653 min

  Is OnlyFans Social Media? Intimacy, Ethics, and On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam interviews Monash University research fellow Emily van der Nagel about her research and book on OnlyFans, focusing on media literacy, platform design, and adult content creation. They discuss the centrality of direct messages for intimacy, monetisation, risks of deception, and parasocial harm. They address creator agency, boundary-setting, audience pressure, demographic uncertainty due to platform secrecy, and how AI may reshape authenticity expectations, disclosure, and trust. Key points: 01:33 Is OnlyFans Social Media? 04:58 Creator Versus Subscriber 06:24 DMs And Money 08:25 Chatbots And Trust 24:53 Ethical Porn Debate 29:09 Leaks And Consent 33:30 Audience Pressure 40:15 AI And The Future

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  #282 Orgasmic Intimacy: Heart-Connected Sex, Pleasure, and Practical Skills (with Susan Bratton)

  Feb 27, 202651 min

  On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam interviews Susan Bratton, author and publisher of 44 books and programs on heart-connected, pleasure-focused “orgasmic intimacy,” reframing sex beyond intercourse to full-body sensual touch, communication, oral pleasuring, yoni massage, and orgasmic intercourse that considers what the vagina wants. She argues sex can improve with age, supports healthspan and happiness, and is an overlooked “fourth factor of longevity” alongside sleep, nutrition, and movement. They discuss barriers like religious repression, patriarchy, porn-driven performance scripts, and poor sexual literacy, and agree pleasure can fuel broader systemic change. Practical steps include dropping agendas and performance goals, slowing down with holding, adoration and verbal encouragement for safety, massage to reduce tension, “bullseye” touch to build arousal over time, normalizing erection fluctuations, and exploring 69 and varied thrusting techniques. Key Points:04:45 Sex as Longevity Pillar12:11 Systems vs Personal Pleasure25:09 Soothing Touch and Care28:34 Beyond Piston Sex30:57 Massage Skill Calibration32:03 Lady Boner Bloodflow45:18 Ecstatic Sex Roadmap

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  #281 Integrating Men’s Health Coaching: TRT, Stress, and Normalizing Sexual Performance Conversations (with Ali Gilbert)

  Feb 19, 202641 min

  On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam interviews Ali Gilbert, a coach known as the “Queen of Men’s Health,” who works with high-performing men over 40 through an integrated model combining medical, training, nutrition, lifestyle, and recovery support to reduce decision fatigue. They discuss how men often follow fragmented advice from multiple experts, switch strategies too quickly, and struggle to isolate what actually works, emphasizing coordinated communication across providers. Common goals include energy, longevity, body composition, and guidance around TRT, including proper dosing, lab monitoring, and the reality that TRT is typically a lifetime commitment when well managed. They also explore how male sexual concerns are often oversimplified as “testosterone or pills,” highlighting stress, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and other hormonal factors (thyroid, DHEA, pregnenolone) as key influences, and the importance of normalizing “boner talk” and focusing on root causes rather than quick fixes. Key points: 05:42 TRT Myths And Symptoms 11:59 Stress Kills Libido 20:18 Performance Anxiety Trap 25:41 Handling Higher Libido 33:54 Beyond Testosterone Alone 39:15 Final Takeaways and Thanks

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  #280 Stop Having Fear-Based Sex (with Caitlin V)

  Feb 12, 202655 min

  On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Caitlin V, a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, HBO Max host, and author of "Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger," outlines her decade of work primarily with men experiencing performance anxiety. She emphasizes shifting from performance and comparison to an experiential focus on pleasure, communication, and treating sexual challenges as data. We also discuss fear, homophobia, and manosphere grifts. Key Points: 05:47 Beyond Premature Ejaculation 13:25 Performance vs Pleasure 19:24 Fear and Masculinity 23:23 Manosphere Grifts 37:44 Fear of Pleasure 42:17 Performance vs Receiving 48:54 Erotic Libraries and Porn

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