
Episode #27
ADHD Dentist: How I Get Myself To Do Stuff I Hate (Without Relying On Motivation)
Free training for dentists who want a "true sub-12% body fat abs", despite the stress and lack of time: https://youtu.be/cYhvSAeAbJs Limited Spots - 6 per month DM me RIP6 on IG - instagram.com/dr.richard.low/ What’s the secret to getting yourself to do the stuff you really don’t want to do? I’m an ADHD dentist / entrepreneur who has: Started and grown the #1 rated dental podcast in the industry (Shared Practices) Helped build a denture & implant group that scaled to dozens of locations Now runs Next Level Fathers, helping 100+ dentists lose nearly 2,000 pounds and radically change their behavior …and I still have to fight procrastination every single day. This video is me unpacking the real reason we procrastinate and the specific skills I’m working on right now to build what I call frustration tolerance. I’m Dr. Richard Low: - Dentist & former CEO of 35 dental practices - Founder of the #1 rated practice‑ownership podcast in dentistry - Burned out, rebuilt my life around faith, family, and fitness - Now coaching 50+ male practice‑owner dentists inside Next Level Fathers to lose weight, reconnect with God, and lead better at home In this video, you’ll learn: 1. Why procrastination is a skill problem, not a character flaw I frame procrastination as: “My current inability to tolerate frustration, boredom, anxiety, or tasks being forced on me.” It usually shows up when: - The task is unpleasant (anxiety, fear, conflict) - The task is boring (not enough stimulation for an ADHD brain) - The task is imposed (you didn’t choose it, but still “have to” do it) - Seeing it as a skill gap gives you hope, because skills can be trained. 2. Frustration tolerance: “F your mood, run the play” Borrowing Hormozi’s line: “F your mood. Run the play.” Meaning: Your emotional state in the moment does not get to decide your behavior. I talk about how this shows up for: - Recording video and reels (still causes me anxiety) - Writing dental notes and doing admin - Giving hard feedback to team members - Building systems we’re not naturally good at The question becomes: “How do I raise my tolerance for doing things that feel bad / boring / forced and do them anyway?” 3. The first skill: noticing the pull You can’t change what you don’t notice. - Where are you feeling resistance? - Where are you suddenly pulled to: Doom scroll Dive into AI “projects” that don’t matter Watch TV, play games, snack, or chase dopamine? Often the pull gets stronger because something hard and unpleasant is waiting for you. Step one: catch the pattern. I even track it with a little “+” every time I notice myself reaching for distraction. 4. Creating space: mindfulness and “do nothing or do the thing” Two practical tools I use: - Micro‑mindfulness / grounding 30–60 seconds: Feel your feet on the floor Notice pressure points (butt, back, arms) Watch your breath in and out Brings you back into your body instead of living in your phone or head. - Do nothing or do the thing Put yourself in a room with no distractions: No phone No TV No “productive procrastination” Give yourself two options: Do the unpleasant task Or literally do nothing After 5 minutes of real “nothing,” your brain will often choose: “Fine. I’ll just do the thing.” This leverages the fact that boredom lowers your dopamine floor and makes hard tasks relatively attractive. 5. Ed Mylett’s “one more” and how I use it From The Power of One More: - When you want to quit: Do one more rep Make one more call Put one more thing away Work one more minute I use this everywhere: Cleaning the house when I’m dead tired after clinic Wrapping up work when my brain is screaming for escape Starting scary tasks by breaking them into one tiny action and then “one more” The big, heroic 40‑minute clean or 4‑hour deep work sprint freaks your brain out. But “one more” is small enough to sneak past the resistance. 6. Why this is my current personal bottleneck I’m turning 40 soon. I’ve fought these patterns my whole life. And still: I’m learning I’m journaling I’m experimenting with myself And I’m sharing what actually works Because if I’m struggling with this at my level of experience, you might be too. The goal isn’t to never feel resistance or frustration. It’s to build the skill of acting in spite of it. If you’re a successful, stressed or burned-out dentist, Watch the full Next Level Fathers Framework: https://youtu.be/cYhvSAeAbJs Connect with me Instagram (daily content & behind the scenes): instagram.com/dr.richard.low/

