Not Just His Plus One
How Your Nervous System Is Sabotaging Your Money, Love & Success
She spent $40,000 rewiring her subconscious, here's what actually happened.What if everything you've been doing to "heal" is actually keeping you stuck? In this raw and deeply honest episode of Not Just His Plus One, subconscious mindset coach and speaker Renée Sarah Lim opens up about the $40,000 journey to rewire her subconscious and the moment she realized she wasn't broken, she just didn't feel safe.From blackout drinking at 13 to feel confident, to hitting rock bottom in a locked-down Spanish village, to becoming a public speaker on stages across the world, Renée shares the unfiltered story of how she went from living in survival mode to coming home to herself.This is a conversation for women who know they're meant for more but feel stuck, exhausted from over-consuming personal development, and tired of trying to "fix" themselves. Renée and Luiza dive into nervous system regulation, subconscious reprogramming, the victim vs. creator mindset, manifestation and magnetism, healing generational trauma, feminine energy, and why real change comes from safety, not hustle.If you've ever felt like no amount of self-improvement is enough, this episode is your invitation to stop fixing yourself and start feeling safe enough to become who you already are.In this episode, we cover:- Why "just do it" advice fails when your nervous system doesn't feel safe- How to know if you have a dysregulated nervous system (sleep, money, relationships, gut health)- The difference between numbing and true regulation- Subconscious rewiring vs. mindset work — and why identity change is the real key- Manifestation, attraction and the science of magnetism- Breaking the personal development addiction and learning to hear your own inner voice- Healing money wounds, self-worth, and the fear of success- Balancing feminine energy, ambition, and building a business as a woman00:00 – Introduction 01:06 – Renee's story: victim mentality and $40,000 spent healing 02:20 – Growing up, alcohol, and losing herself to fit in 04:15 – The COVID lockdown in Spain that changed everything 09:28 – Discovering her healing certification 13:11 – The $15,000 sales day that rewired her identity 18:17 – Understanding victim mentality 21:27 – Childhood in Malaysia and learning to numb pain 29:10 – Map of consciousness and releasing dense emotions 42:26 – Magnetism vs. manifestation 56:27 – Neuro-manifestation and nervous system regulation 1:07:19 – The disaster day before speaking to 3,500 people 1:34:48 – Five closing questions 1:40:39 – Advice for women who feel stuckGuest: Renée Sarah Lim Host: Luiza Samarova🔗 Connect Follow Not Just His Plus One for weekly conversations with women who know their mind and know they're meant for more. Follow Renée: https://www.instagram.com/reneesarahlim/Follow Luiza: https://www.instagram.com/samarova_/Follow the podcast: https://www.instagram.com/notjusthisplusone/ Subscribe & share if this episode resonated with you. 💛For people looking for: subconscious healing, nervous system regulation, personal development for women, how to feel safe in your body, manifestation, law of attraction, subconscious reprogramming, healing trauma, feminine energy, victim mindset, self-worth, mindset coach, women empowerment podcast, healing journey, breathwork, identity shift, stop fixing yourself, spiritual growth podcast