
Episode #44
Ep 44: Your Inner Critic Is a Toddler With a Bullhorn: Peter Kenney on Shadow Work
What if your inner critic isn't a villain — just a toddler holding a bullhorn? Peter Kenney calls himself a spiritual handyman — twenty years helping people move from stuck to unstoppable, after a spontaneous out-of-body experience during a kundalini yoga class rerouted his entire life. His book, The Inner Remodel , treats the self like a house, complete with rooms for fear, the inner critic, and the habits you've never actually stopped to look at. In this conversation we explore inner transformation through the metaphor of a house you've never actually toured — the entryway where you decide how the world sees you, the basement where everything you've buried is quietly waiting, and the room shadow work actually lives in: not a beast to be feared, but "an angry, hurt, lonely, tired, hungry aspect of yourself" that just needs to be seen. We get into the real difference between pain and suffering, why understanding beats willpower when it comes to compulsive behavior, the Eastern concept of samskaras mapped onto Western nervous system science, and what it actually means to stop trying to love yourself and instead realize you already are love. This is a conversation about redecorating from the inside out — one room at a time. If this conversation moved something in you, a rating or review helps more men find this work. Martin's book, The Weary Traveller's Guide to a Life Worth Living , is available now.

