
Older & Wilder
Letting Go of F*cks as We Age
Aging Out of Fucks: Midlife Brain Shifts Joy and Claire discuss upcoming travel and Claire shares enjoying runs guided by a British-accented DJ coach, switching her weightlifting to evenings for convenience, and the great on-ear headphones review. They talk about Joy's Santa Fe anniversary trip and a Big Thief concert with incredible people-watching and praise for lead singer Adrianne Lenker’s musicianship. They then unpack Ellen Schur’s “ Aging Out of Fucks, ” linking midlife hormonal/neurological changes to reduced people-pleasing, less self-censorship, energy prioritization, authenticity, and social stigma around women being “difficult.” 00:00 Welcome and Drinks Chat 01:25 Needy Dogs Take Over 04:27 Dog Boarding Moab Dilemma 06:53 Travel Plans Florida Trip 07:44 Night Workouts and Running 09:56 Sleep Guilt and Chronotypes 16:05 Running Gear and Pop Culture 17:38 Santa Fe Anniversary Concert 20:01 Haircut Appointment Drama 21:33 Aging Out of Fucks Explained 31:57 Work Filters and Authenticity 38:28 Wrap Up and Goodbye

