
Older & Wilder
Gender Health and Mental Health
Affirming Care, Perimenopause, and the Times We’re In (with Rebecca from Folx) On Older and Wilder, hosts Claire and Joy talk with Rebecca (Laugh Cry Club) about debunking mental-health misinformation and Rebecca’s work at Folx, a telehealth company providing affirming LGBTQIA+ healthcare, including gender-affirming hormone therapy, primary care, and mental health services. They discuss barriers and non-affirming experiences in traditional healthcare, explain that gender-affirming care is careful, assessment-based, and not the sensationalized narratives about minors, and note gatekeeping like required WPATH letters for adult surgeries. The conversation shifts to perimenopause/menopause, covering brain fog, hot flashes, sleep disruption, and sudden mental-health drops, with hormones helping some and emphasizing not to self-gaslight and to seek specialized care. They also touch on workplace normalization, compassion over “I suffered so you should,” and share “What a Time to Be Alive” moments. 01:11 True Crime Riff 01:54 HOA And Neighborhood Drama 03:14 What Folx Does 04:56 Barriers In Healthcare 07:33 Affirming Intake Process 09:43 Trans Care Education 15:12 Gatekeeping And WPATH Letters 18:35 Trans Athletes Mythbusting 20:38 Perimenopause Mental Health 24:40 Rebecca Symptoms And HRT 27:01 3AM Wakeups And Sleep 27:42 Sleep Heat Fixes 28:25 Perimenopause Mood Spiral 29:54 Medication and Hormone Help 34:34 Rage and No Fs 37:18 Care Is Affirming 38:09 Workplace Brain Fog 42:00 What a Time Segment 47:12 Texas THC Crackdown 51:11 Wrap Up and Japan Plug

