
Episode #19
Why Modern Parenting Feels Impossible (and How to Get Your Village Back) — Dr. Anne Josephson
The mental load was never meant for one person — so why are we all parenting like it was? This week Rita sits down with Dr. Anne Josephson, Psy.D., MS.Ed., licensed psychologist and founder of Uptown Psychology, an evidence-based CBT practice serving families across New York, Connecticut, New Jersey, and Florida. Together they name the thing so many of us feel but can't quite say: we were raised to never "trouble people," we built a world where every app removes another human interaction, and now we're exhausted, isolated, and wondering where the village went. Dr. Josephson's answer is refreshingly unprecious — the village comes back through small, awkward, repeated acts: borrowing the egg, making the specific ask, setting the kind boundary, and letting our kids watch all of it. Then: what convenience culture is doing to our kids' tolerance for discomfort, why boredom is a skill worth protecting, the social skills quietly disappearing (wait until you hear about the tin can phone), and the one tech habit she recommends to every family. In this episode: The generational script against asking for help — and how to rewrite it Community care in practice: small asks, clear boundaries, zero guilt Receiving help from grandparents without the control spiral What a frictionless world costs developing nervous systems Boredom, patience, and phones that sleep in another room Supporting kids with ADHD and anxiety in an instant-gratification world Learn more about Dr. Josephson: uptownpsychologyny.com Listen wherever you get your podcasts Join the gooshi newsletter at gooshi.world Send us Fan Mail You can explore Gooshi's ecosystem here: https://linktr.ee/gooshi_world

