
Episode #90
I Wasn't Who I Said I Was, with Stephen Scoggins | Our Family Invests
Stephen Scoggins built and exited multiple companies, one approaching nine figures, and hosts the BUILD podcast with over 48 million views. But this episode isn't about that climb. It's about what happened after he got everything he thought he wanted and felt nothing. Stephen opens up about the season after his exit, when a comment from his son Tyler at a taco shop cracked open just how absent he'd been while being present. He walks through the Five Constraints that quietly derail founders and families (arrogance, ignorance, impatience, fear, insecurity), why his dyslexia became an operational advantage instead of a source of shame, and the jet boat moment in New Zealand that gave his upcoming book its title. Fair warning: figuring out you're not who you said you are is a lot less fun with a life jacket on. What you'll learn: Why Stephen calls his homeless-to-nine-figures story the least useful part of his journey The five internal constraints that quietly sabotage founders and families How to build a daily rhythm that protects presence without relying on willpower Why dyslexia became one of Stephen's sharpest operational tools What a stranger on a jet boat in New Zealand told him that reshaped his next chapter Subscribe to The Weekly Compass, our free weekly newsletter with short practical tips for building wealth, aligning your family, and living intentionally: https://OurFamilyInvests.com/newsletter






