
Episode #133
Calming the Storm: Finding Clarity in the Midst of Chaos
Episode Description When a decision keeps looping in your mind — the school choice, the hard conversation, the family rhythm that never quite sticks — Anna walks listeners through a live coaching session designed to bring real clarity, not just more to-do's. Using tools she uses with her own coaching clients, she guides listeners through reframing a stuck decision through time, perspective, values, and faith. Key Points Time Travel: Project 90 days to a year+ into the future and look back at today. Ask: "What will make me glad I took this step?" Clarifies what you truly value when fear and logistics fall away. The Lamp: You don't need the whole path lit — just the next step. God's Word is "a lamp to my feet," not a floodlight for the next 10 years. Release the pressure to solve the whole decision at once. Milk vs. Meat: Some seasons need firm, black-and-white rules; more mature seasons may allow more freedom. Discern which season you're in rather than defaulting to old restrictions. Values Check: Identify your 2–3 core values (Anna's: courage, stewardship, belonging) and hold the decision up against them. Which option reflects growth, not just safety? Name the Story: Every stuck decision usually has an unexamined belief behind it — listen for what follows "because." Ask "based on what?" to challenge assumptions and judgments. What Do I Need to Know/Believe?: Ask what you need to believe about yourself, others, God, or the decision itself to move forward — often surfaces trust issues hiding underneath. Core reminder: we don't control outcomes, only how we show up — faithfully, courageously, surrendered. Scripture Referenced Psalm 119:105 — "Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path" Mark 12:30–31 — Love the Lord your God... love your neighbor as yourself 1 Corinthians 8 / Romans 14 (paraphrased) — meat sacrificed to idols; freedom vs. conscience Hebrews 5 (paraphrased) — milk vs. meat, spiritual maturity Psalm 73 (referenced) — "Why do the wicked prosper?" Books & Resources Mentioned White Squall (1996 film) — "the journey's the thing" - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118158/ "The Summer Day" by Mary Oliver — "What are you going to do with your one wild and precious life?" - https://www.loc.gov/programs/poetry-and-literature/poet-laureate/poet-laureate-projects/poetry-180/all-poems/item/poetry-180-133/the-summer-day/ "It Is Well With My Soul" (hymn) — written by Horatio Spafford after losing his children in a shipwreck - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhaTIu_k4w0 Andrea Johnson interview (past episode) — core values exercise - https://youtu.be/fzQZ2aVJink Debra McNinch / Battle Cry Moms episode (past episode, referenced) - https://youtu.be/TSNzeSAbJfo Let's Talk Coaching! Are you ready to close the gap between where you are and where you feel called to go? Whether you're stuck on what's next … need a shot of encouragement … or have some past hurts that need tending, I'd be honored to serve as your coach as you work through this season. Schedule a call today to unlock your next breakthrough! https://calendly.com/annahmclaughlin/coaching-curiosity-call If you have questions before booking the curiosity call, feel free to message me at 704.810.1181 or on Instagram at @sheconsidersafield! Connect Leave a Review — Enjoying the show? A review helps more people find it - and we appreciate it SO much! Overwhelmed to Overcomer - Podcast - Apple Podcasts Book a Curiosity Call — Want someone walking alongside you as you learn to trust the Holy Spirit's leading? Book here! https://calendly.com/annahmclaughlin/coaching-curiosity-call Just Like Paradise — Are you looking for your next beach getaway? We'd love to host you at Just Like Paradise in Oak Island, NC! See if our space fits your needs here: airbnb.com/h/justlikeparadise ... and then contact me on Instagram @sheconsidersafield or at 704.810.1181 for 10% off your stay! Referral gift — AND....... refer a friend who books a stay with us at Just Like Paradise ... we'll send you $100 cash as a thank you! MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6



