
Episode #155
Episode 155: What Turning 35 Taught Me About Success, Self Worth, Love and Life
Episode 155: What Turning 35 Taught Me About Success, Self Worth, Love and Life What does it actually mean to be successful at 35? As I entered my 35th year, I had a strange few weeks where I found myself questioning my life, my choices and whether I should be further along by now. I wondered what I had to show for 35 years. And then I realised how much of that questioning came from societal expectations and my own ideas about what success is supposed to look like. Because success isn't always tangible. Neither are happiness, love, impact or the way you make another person feel. In this honest solo episode, I share the lessons I've learned through 35 years of living, losing, loving, healing, building, falling apart and beginning again. I share my lived experience around some of the biggest lessons I've had to learn: • Asking for help instead of believing I have to do everything alone • Letting go of control and learning to trust life • Dropping expectations and choosing joy • Moving my body and remembering that life is meant to be felt • Releasing the pressure to have everything figured out • Redefining what success actually means to me • Learning that what is intangible can still be incredibly real And perhaps most importantly, I want to remind you that you are not behind. Whether you're 25, 35, 45 or 65, there will be moments when you question whether you've done enough or whether you are enough. You are. Your life doesn't need to look a certain way for it to matter. Life is messy, unpredictable and sometimes incredibly hard. It is also beautiful, colourful, hilarious, heartbreaking and filled with moments of extraordinary joy. That is the polarity of being alive. You are the captain of your ship. The ocean will move regardless, but you still get to choose the direction you steer. And perhaps you won't always end up where you thought you would. But that doesn't mean you've gone wrong. This episode is an invitation to stop measuring your life against someone else's timeline, come back to yourself, and remember that life is for learning. If this resonates, come and join me inside my free Telegram space, where we can continue the conversation. Free telegram https://t.me/+HWzed76oBpczNjA8 Full blog https://sherissebisram.com/blog

