
Episode #19
My Mom is a Licensed Trauma Therapist...and a Narcissist | Stealing Money and Labor, Covering Up Abuse, Messing with My Medications, Pathologizing Friends & Family, and How I'm Healing
Host Alyson gets personal about what it's like having a parent who's a therapist and a toxic narcissist. Alyson shares about her mom's unethical household EMDR sessions, unofficial sessions her mom tried to facilitate between her and her coaches, the ways her mom financial exploited her for her practice, and more. This is a story about breaking the spell, learning to decenter a toxic parent, and discovering how to find closure within yourself when the person who broke you is basically licensed in gaslighting. ️ Subscribe to the podcast! Make sure to leave us a rating, review, and hit that subscribe button to help the algorithm find us! 00:00 – Introduction: My mom's career was a mask01:31 – Unofficial therapy session with coaches04:02 – Hiding my sexual assault to protect her image05:30 – How she pathologized my friends to isolate me07:20 -- Thinking everybody wants her advice for free8:30 -- Victim blaming but she's a trauma therapist10:40 -- Encouraging my eating disorder but she is a therapist for people with eating disorders11:14 -- Messing with my medication12:20 -- Everything is psychosomatic 14:02 – Working at her practice: "boundaries"15:58 – Financial exploitation 19:11 -- Stole my brother's tuition money20:00 -- Telling our therapists what to work on with us in our sessions21:00 -- Present day: Financial deception, custom house budgets, and grandiose delusions23:00– The art of reparenting, letting go, and finding final closure

