
Episode #27
Jeff Strong Torn, Part 2: Loving Without Fixing
What if loving someone means letting go of the need to change them? In Part 2 of our conversation with Torn author Jeff Strong, we talk about one of the hardest parts of a faith transition: what happens between the people who leave and the people who stay. Can a believing parent truly accept a child who walks away from the Church? Can someone who leaves make room for family members who still hope they return? And how do you stay close when neither side sees faith the same way anymore? Jeff shares what changed in his own family after three of his five children left the Church, why certainty became less important to him over time, and how fear, humility, and acceptance can reshape relationships. This is a conversation about loving people without fixing them, making room for different beliefs, and finding peace without requiring anyone to change their mind.

